Dear EX-sis in law,
When my brother and you were married, his paycheck went straight to the bank. For years, you give him allowances to what he can use because your reasoning was that you were “saving” money. Lord knows what you did with your pay. You control everything in the house because you were the “educated” one with a Bachelor’s in Psychology which was useless because you got a job after 2yrs of looking in a field that doesn’t even required a “Psychology” degree. Mind you, in case you have forgotten that my brother supported you through college.
When you met your old flame again and my brother caught you cheating on him. You had the guts to tell MY brother that he was a “No Good Piece of CRAP” and that you made a mistake when you married him because he got you knocked up and that you would’ve never married a man who couldn’t satisfy you in bed like him. Who told you to spread your legs and follow my brother everywhere? Remember, your family tried to force my brother to marry you but he wouldn’t marry you until you got pregnant…. He step up to the plate and took care of his responsibility didn’t he?? You could’ve told everyone that my brother was such a bad person etc.. but you choose to say that if you didn’t get knocked up, you would’ve never married him?
Granted, my brother isn’t a perfect person and he does have his flaws. He is uneducated with only a HS diploma working in a factory. He does indeed have NOTHING to offer you and sometimes will not bend to anyone once his mind is set. True, he is stubborn in every possible way. True, he used to be aThug/Gangster back in the days but you loved that shyte didn’t you? You were the one who parent’s had to come hit you to go home. REMEMBER?
So, when you wanted to leave him for another man, what did he do? He opened the door for you didn’t he? He was hurt but he let you go because you beg him to let you go. You took all the money and you made sure his name was on all your debts didn’t you. You had the courts come looking for him to pay debts he never incurred.
Even after all that, even after you left, you have not stop harassing my brother! You for sure thought my brother will come to your rescue when you found out the grass wasn’t greener on the other side and when you beg him to allow you back into his life and he said NO, didn’t you threaten the cops on him? Yes, my brother moved on faster than you thought he would. Yes, he did end up falling in love again. BUT he doesn’t bother you and your boyfriends does he? NOPE. He has even apologized for the past and that for both of you to move on and do better, there’s children involved so he only wants what is best for the children and for you. Didn’t he ask you nicely to leave him alone? Didn’t he ask you to stop harassing him and his girlfriend? Didn’t he BEG you to stop stealing from him?
We are sick and tired of your childish threats on calling the police on him, on us or taking the kids away. If you want the kids, take them. My brother told you to take them didn’t he? He even offered to pay you child support didn’t he? Every time you come around or we hear your name, we cringed. If it wasn’t for the kids and their innocence, we would had shut the door on you every time you go over to my brother’s looking for revenge because in your mind, he ruined your “perfect” life. No one in the family has said one word to your regarding my brother and you. Everyone just want you gone. So please stop trying to find drama for us and calling the cops on us because you think we beat your kids ok.
Go and live your life. We are all very happy for you ok.
Sincerely,
The sister in law that you called the cops on last night because she wouldn’t release the kids to you without her brother’s approval