Back in the late 80's, some of my older brothers, cousins, and friends love this place and I also participated a couple of times with them just to see what's up.
Basically, you just cold call by knocking on the door unless there's some Hmong ritual stuff hanging by the front door. When they open the door, you should still ask, is your home restricted (Nej puas caiv) anyways?
If there's no restrictions to enter then you ask if their single daughters are home and go from there...
Sometimes there's already other dudes there so you just join in...and take turn chatting with the girl(s)...
I was never a big fan of this Hmong looking for girl/dating system after participating in it a couple of times but it was what it was...
Anyways, back in the 80s, this apartment complex was a hot spot for this Hmong dating system because Hmong live in just about every unit if not all and there were many young single Hmong girls but it's pretty much run by Messicans now as I did not see a single Hmong person there

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