IT ruins lives I'm telling you. I know of a family friend who had a mistress that he frequently taken to reno. Lost his wife, his family, his business that they build together. You don't see it coming at all. The guy looks like a guy who had control over his family and his life but got caught with a mistress and gambling addiction.
The only lives I can ruin is my own because I don't have any immediate family. If I do, hell no, a single dime is going into the casino because I rather feed my kids. At least I have that core principle down so I know I will be alright.
My vietnamese janitor guy that I used to talked about on here just got evicted by his own son. It was ok until his son got married and you know how it is, got influences by his wife. What kind of son kicks their own parents out? I mean sure if you kick out a guy who is loaded and can support himself but this guy is dirt poor like your boy the hmoobrock. This is the first case I ever heard of in the viet community that a son kicked out his old father over stupid thing like gambling. I mean the guy is retired so what else is he going to do with his life? It is not like he's playing away other people's money and ruining their lives. So then he got kicked out and is now forced to find part time labor job, weekend only to pay $450 a month for a shared mobile home. I told him I wish I will never have to run into his son or I'll give it to him. That idiot is in his late 20's so he should be easy for me to biatch at. I'll kick his azz too if I have to. Pisses me off.
You want to know the worst part? They all lived together, him and his mom and his other 2 sisters. He got them all sided with him and even manipulated his wife to try to divorce him too. What kind of evil is this? With nothing left, he sided with me that he is planning to go into a monastery and become a monk. That's his life in a wrap. Gambling, it can ruin lives.