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no you not doing okay

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no you not doing okay

Like his clique member BNM, look who crawled back to prove me right (ONCE AGAIN)...BUT THEN IT'S BECAUSE...

he still "mad"...so much so that he still can't abide by his own words aka LIES like the one below:

I ALREADY STOP CLICKUON THEM


THEREFORE:

yeah i just make that stuff up

Just lied, dude


BECAUSE:

dang...somebody is salty
somebody's is jello.
all I hear is, "I'm jealous."
Yup, that’s all that is. Jealous.


"SEEING IS TRULY BELIEVING YO"

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Some folks still trying to convince me to put my money in a CD every now and then by saying things like "let your money work for you"...but I'm still content so no need..

It's like eating at a buffet, you're full and content but some still try to convince you to eat some more... ;D



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Some of those same folks also tried to convince us to have more kids because they believe in bigger family = more prosperities.. .

But nope we are STILL content where we're at:

Having kids is NOT a requirement in life so don't force it if you're not ready. Otherwise, it's not fair to the kid...

After my wife and I got married, it took us a couple years to decide if we want kids or not...

We've decided to start with one and the reassess. Been several years now and we are still very content with one and done... O0



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When I said we did what we could to survive in the 70s here in the U.S., it included us kids taking advantage of California's CRV so we recycled the heck out of recycling when ever possible such as the weekends. Back then most of soda products were in glass bottles so it's 10 cents per bottle. Heavy as heck hauling it to the grocery stores and/or recycle centers on foot but it helped. We cut the neighbors' grass and some neighbors only have the manual mower so lots of labor involved especially for young kids but it helped the family. We washed the neighbors' cars with no set price, just donation and that helped too. Single mom and all of us kids pitched in as family to survive. Don't want to wish that on any kid out there as a kid should just enjoy being a kid but it was a good life lesson.

Those are just a few examples of the things we do to survive during our early years here in America back in the 70s.

Took a long time for us to become middle-classers except for my oldest sister but we've all made it and that life lesson taught us a very important lesson about work ethics, intrinsic motivation and perseverance. I don't categorized my oldest sister as a middle-classer because she's actually the most successful out of all of us. I say she's in the upper middle to rich tier. She had less education opportunity because she's older but she was smart minded and worked the hardest to get to where she is now. She's the only one in the family with7 figure bank account vs. 6 figure for the rest of us younger siblings.



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I may not be able to get my wife the most expensive wedding engagement ring but I was able to get her one that's on the higher end side that she also likes because she's a big fan of Tiffany & Co  O0:








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In fact, my wife's such a big fan of Tiffany & CO, our wedding cake was a Tiffany theme one too  ;D:






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I don't have many but I've splurged on a few Snap-On hand tools...over the years:














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It may not be the highest grade most expensive kitchenware but Mauviel and Le creuset are on the upper end of the spectrum so yes, still a long way from the dirt poor days in Laos:












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Some of the food we ate in Laos that cost way more here. Some of the stuff we ate only cost us time and labor in Laos:








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It's nice and a blessing to be able to secretly buy my wife a $300 wallet without any hiccups and surprised her with it  O0:






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ur still poor




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