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'Wildflowering' is a new dating term that sounds sweet. Don't be fooled
Spring is in bloom − and so is a controversial new dating term.

While so many dating terms aim to define and clarify every micro-aspect of a relationship, "wildflowering" is all about the opposite. When you wildflower, you let a relationship unfold completely organically. That means no timelines, labels, definitions or expectations.

In other words, you let the connection bloom like a wildflower. Free, untamed and beautiful. Right?

Well, not necessarily. Yes, there are some wonderful aspects to wildflowering − ones which modern daters, steeped in arbitrary rules and overthinking, could definitely enjoy. But there's also some pitfalls.

Those who wildflower risk being led on or taken advantage of by those treating the trend as merely excuse to not commit, set clear boundaries or adhere to any standards.

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Amy Chan, a dating coach and the author of "Unsingle: How to Date Smarter and Create Love that Lasts," says the trend has some good to it but is not right for everyone. And knowing what kind of dater you are is crucial before deciding to throw out all dating wisdom in the pursuit of wildflowering.




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