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LuckyState98

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« Reply #870 on: December 29, 2010, 07:40:45 PM »
Thanks A, I have my new years resolution now.  It is always close by.  I just needed to reflect on it.




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« Reply #871 on: December 29, 2010, 08:56:18 PM »
"Oh king," said Solon, "no man can say whether you are happy or not until you die.  For no man knows what misfortunes may overtake you, or what misery may be yours in place of all this splendor."     - Solon (the wisest man in the world) to Croesus (the richest man in the world)



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« Reply #872 on: December 29, 2010, 09:04:56 PM »
I just read this story with my little girl and it's so good that I wanted to share it.



"AS RICH AS CRŒSUS"

[82] SOME thousands of years ago there lived in Asia a king whose name was Crœsus. The country over which he ruled was not very large, but its people were prosperous and famed for their wealth. Crœsus himself was said to be the richest man in the world; and so well known is his name that, to this day, it is not uncommon to say of a very wealthy person that he is "as rich as Crœsus."

King Crœsus had everything that could make him happy—lands and houses and slaves, fine clothing to wear, and beautiful things to look at. He could not think of anything that he needed to make him more comfortable or contented. "I am the happiest man in the world," he said.

It happened one summer that a great man from across the sea was traveling in Asia. The name of this man was Solon, and he was the lawmaker of Athens in Greece. He was noted for his wisdom; and, centuries after his death, the highest praise that could be given to a learned man was to say, "He is as wise as Solon."

Solon had heard of Crœsus, and so one day he [83] visited him in his beautiful palace. Crœsus was now happier and prouder than ever before, for the wisest man in the world was his guest. He led Solon through his palace and showed him the grand rooms, the fine carpets, the soft couches, the rich furniture, the pictures, the books. Then he invited him out to see his gardens and his orchards and his stables; and he showed him thousands of rare and beautiful things that he had collected from all parts of the world.

In the evening as the wisest of men and the richest of men were dining together, the king said to his guest, "Tell me now, O Solon, who do you think is the happiest of all men?" He expected that Solon would say, "Crœsus."

The wise man was silent for a minute, and then he said, "I have in mind a poor man who once lived in Athens and whose name was Tellus. He, I doubt not, is the happiest of all men."

This was not the answer that Crœsus wanted; but he hid his disappointment and asked, "Why do you think so?"

"Because," answered his guest, "Tellus was an honest man who labored hard for many years to bring up his children and to give them a good education; and when they were grown and able to do for themselves, he joined the Athenian army and [84] gave his life bravely in the defense of his country. Can you think of any one who is more deserving of happiness?"

"Perhaps not," answered Crœsus, half choking with disappointment . "But who do you think ranks next to Tellus in happiness?" He was quite sure now that Solon would say "Crœsus."

"I have in mind," said Solon, "two young men whom I knew in Greece. Their father died when they were mere children, and they were very poor. But they worked manfully to keep the house together and to support their mother, who was in feeble health. Year after year they toiled, nor thought of anything but their mother's comfort. When at length she died, they gave all their love to Athens, their native city, and nobly served her as long as they lived."

Then Crœsus was angry. "Why is it," he asked, "that you make me of no account and think that my wealth and power are nothing? Why is it that you place these poor working people above the richest king in the world?"

"O king," said Solon, "no man can say whether you are happy or not until you die. For no man knows what misfortunes may overtake you, or what misery may be yours in place of all this splendor."

[85] Many years after this there arose in Asia a powerful king whose name was Cyrus. At the head of a great army he marched from one country to another, overthrowing many a kingdom and attaching it to his great empire of Babylon. King Crœsus with all his wealth was not able to stand against this mighty warrior. He resisted as long as he could. Then his city was taken, his beautiful palace was burned, his orchards and gardens were destroyed, his treasures were carried away, and he himself was made prisoner.

"The stubbornness of this man Crœsus," said King Cyrus, "has caused us much trouble and the loss of many good soldiers. Take him and make an example of him for other petty kings who may dare to stand in our way."

Thereupon the soldiers seized Crœsus and dragged him to the market place, handling him pretty roughly all the time. Then they built up a great pile of dry sticks and timber taken from the ruins of his once beautiful palace. When this was finished they tied the unhappy king in the midst of it, and one ran for a torch to set it on fire.

"Now we shall have a merry blaze," said the savage fellows. "What good can all his wealth do him now?"

As poor Crœsus, bruised and bleeding, lay upon [86] the pyre without a friend to soothe his misery, he thought of the words which Solon had spoken to him years before: "No man can say whether you are happy or not until you die," and he moaned, "O Solon! O Solon! Solon!"

It so happened that Cyrus was riding by at that very moment and heard his moans. "What does he say?" he asked of the soldiers.

"He says, 'Solon, Solon, Solon!' " answered one.

Then the king rode nearer and asked Crœsus, "Why do you call on the name of Solon?"

Crœsus was silent at first; but after Cyrus had repeated his question kindly, he told all about Solon's visit at his palace and what he had said.

The story affected Cyrus deeply. He thought of the words, "No man knows what misfortunes may overtake you, or what misery may be yours in place of all this splendor." And he wondered if some time he, too, would lose all his power and be helpless in the hands of his enemies.

"After all," said he, "ought not men to be merciful and kind to those who are in distress? I will do to Crœsus as I would have others do to me." And he caused Crœsus to be given his freedom; and ever afterwards treated him as one of his most honored friends.



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« Reply #873 on: December 29, 2010, 09:05:24 PM »
Courage comes from emotions.

Being able to control your anger comes from emotions.

Discipline comes from emotions.

That is why emotional intelligence is so much stronger than normal IQ intelligence.

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« Reply #874 on: December 30, 2010, 06:09:42 AM »
After experiencing 3 weeks of success in Trading, I am back to square one in my results.  However, I am not back to square one, because I have gained experiences and new rules to make me a little better.  I have identified my four errors.  They should never be part of my trading habits in the first place anyway.

1.  Complete detachment to results, before, during, and after Trades
2.  Triggers, then mostly limit orders (CF only RC:PR & CMA:PR, when Triggered)
3.  25Minute Rule (once Entered)


I started well because my focus was on success and great patterns and entries.  I came of the path, because my focus was money.



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« Reply #875 on: December 30, 2010, 06:13:11 AM »
Dad,

Thank you for being in my life.  Thanks for the good, the bad, and the ugly.  I will cherish the good, and learn from the bad and the ugly.  I can only accept responsibility for me, and so I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for being one of my greatest teachers.  I wish you all the desires and happiness you cherish, and hopefully more, in this life and the next. 

Thank very much



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« Reply #876 on: December 30, 2010, 06:24:58 AM »
I think this is one of the most beautiful Zen Koan


Zen Koan
THE OFFICIAL Riko once asked Nansen to explain to him the old
problem of the goose in the bottle. "If a man puts a gosling into
the bottle" he said, "and feeds the gosling through the
bottle-neck until it grows and grows and becomes a goose, and then
there just is no more room inside the bottle, how can the man get
it out without killing the goose, or breaking the bottle?"

"Riko!" shouted Nansen, and gave a great clap with his hands.

"Yes, master," said the official with a start.

"See!" said Nansen, "the goose is out!"

http://www.terebess.hu/english/zen.html


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« Reply #877 on: December 30, 2010, 09:36:06 AM »
IN TETSUGEN'S time the holy Buddhist books in Chinese had never
been published in Japanese, and Tetsugen thought they should be
prepared so for his own countrymen. He planned to have several
thousand copies printed from hand-engraved woodblocks, and went
from town to town to collect donations so this great work could go
ahead. After ten years he had the money needed, and started to
have the blocks cut.

Just then the Uji river flooded, and there was famine in the land.
Tetsugen took the money he had collected, and bought rice for the
starving people. Then he started out to collect his funds again.
Whether the donation was a little one or in coins of gold, he was
equally grateful. After some years, he had the money again.

Then an epidemic passed over the country. Thousands of families
were left without support. So Tetsugen spent all the money he had
collected, helping the helpless. When it was all gone, he started
collecting it again.

Finally his great project was accomplished, and he died content.
Tetsugen's edition of the holy books in Japanese can still be
seen. But those who know, say that the first two editions, which
have never been seen, far surpass the third.



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« Reply #878 on: December 30, 2010, 09:39:08 AM »
THE NUN Chiyono studied for years but was unable to find
enlightenment. One moonlight night she was carrying an old pail,
filled with water. She was watching the full moon reflected in
this water, when the bamboo strip that held the pailstaves broke.
The pail fell all apart; the water rushed out; the moon's
reflection disappeared. And Chiyono found enlightenment. She wrote
this verse:

This way and that way
I tried to keep the pail together
Hoping the weak bamboo
Would never break.

Suddenly the bottom fell out:
No more water:
No more moon in the water:
Emptiness in my hand!


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« Reply #879 on: December 30, 2010, 09:50:39 AM »
MATAJURA wanted to become a great swordsman, but his father said
he wasn't quick enough and could never learn. So Matajura went to
the famous dueller Banzo, and asked to become his pupil. "How long
will it take me to become a master?" he asked. "Suppose I became
your servant, to be with you every minute; how long?"

"Ten years," said Banzo.

"My father is getting old. Before ten years have passed I will
have to return home to take care of him. Suppose I work twice as
hard; how long will it take me?"

"Thirty years," said Banzo.

"How is that?" asked Matajura. "First you say ten years. Then when
I offer to work twice as hard, you say it will take three times as
long. Let me make myself clear: I will work unceasingly: no
hardship will be too much. How long will it take?"

"Seventy years" said Banzo. "A pupil in such a hurry learns
slowly."

Matajura understood. Without asking for any promises in terms of
time, he became Banzo's servant. He cleaned, he cooked, he washed,
he gardened. He was ordered never to speak of fencing or to touch
a sword. He was very sad at this; but he had given his promise to
the master, and resolved to keep his word. Three years passed for
Matajura as a servant.

One day while he was gardening, Banzo came up quietly behind him
and gave him a terrible whack with a wooden sword. The next day in
the kitchen the same blow fell again. Thereafter, day in, day out,
from every corner and at any moment, he was attacked by Banzo's
wooden sword. He learned to live on the balls of his feet, ready
to dodge at any movement. He became a body with no desires, no
thoughts - only eternal readiness and quickness.

Banzo smiled, and started lessons. Soon Matajura was the greatest
swordsman in Japan.



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« Reply #880 on: December 30, 2010, 10:07:41 AM »
MAMIYA was a worldly man, but he thought he ought to study Zen. So
he went to a great teacher, who told him to concentrate on the
famous koan: "What is the sound of one hand?" Mamiya went away,
and came back a week later, shaking his head. He could not get it.

"Get out!" said the master. "You are not trying hard enough. You
still think of money and food and pleasure. It would be better if
you died. Then you might learn the answer."

The next week Mamiya came back again. When the master asked him:
"Well, what is the sound of one hand?" he clutched at his heart,
groaned, and fell down dead.

"Well, you've taken my advice and died," said the master. "But
what about that sound?"

Mamiya opened one eye. "I haven't solved that yet," he said.

"Dead men don't speak," said the master. "Get up, and get out!"



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Re: I am living my greatest life, each moment of each day.
« Reply #881 on: December 30, 2010, 05:42:47 PM »
My favorite Hindi Movie,  'Lage Raho Munna Bhai'

It will make you laugh and cry and reflect on your life.




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« Reply #882 on: December 30, 2010, 08:34:16 PM »
Invictus

 
     Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the Pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.

In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.

Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds, and shall find, me unafraid.

It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll.
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.

William Ernest Henley



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« Reply #883 on: December 30, 2010, 08:36:18 PM »
I always have ideas to overcome obstacles.   Let's try this one, which I just wrote up on my wall.  I have used it with other habits, and it has given me success.  Lets see how it works.


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« Reply #884 on: December 30, 2010, 08:43:42 PM »
Quotes of the day:

"We have to serve ourselves many years before we gain our own confidence."   - Henry S. Haskins

"The Keenest sorrow is to recognize ourselves as the sole cause of all our adversities." - Sophocles

"Everyone is perfectly willing to learn from unpleasant experience-if only the damage of the first lesson could be repaired." - Georg Christoph Lichtenberg

"A loving person lives in a loving world.  A hostile person lives in a hostile world: everyone you meet is your mirror." - Ken Keyes Jr.



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