PL, the game is very much like strip poker... if you drop the ball, you give something of yours to her... and if she drops the ball, she gives you something. The idea is that later on... when you meet up with her to give back her things... that is when you get to know her and you can then make your moves.
That's how my first love got me... lolz. For each item, I would have to dance with him once at the new year... I gave him so many things, I ended up dancing with him all night.