I don't think it's narrow minded but being realistic. When you put yourself in a situation or place where people easily misunderstand you - they will. And misunderstandi ng will lead to other things... It is worth the risk? That's where everyone differs.
It is "narrow minded" when you only see it as bad or wrong even though factual evidence says it can be good too depending on the individual...
"realistic" is not all things that happen at the clubs is bad or wrong, not all people that go to the clubs go there to cheat on their spouse, nothing wrong with anyone that is of age to go to the clubs regardless of their marital status, and the purpose/reason to go to the club varies ...
And if they chose to "misunderstood" without facts then it's on them..What "risk"? If your self-esteem is so low and insecurity is that bad that you feel like it's a "risk" when people pass false judgment about you then might as well stop living..And those rumors just doesn't happen the clubs as I've seen happen at Hmong New Years.
Since being "online" is ranked higher than the clubs for married people to cheat, do I care if another person falsely assume I'm cheating just because I'm online"? NOPE!!!