I can see that to a degree especially in areas where Hmong women have very little to zero rights but to flip it around from what I've seen here in the states, some Hmong men are in the same boat too as the grass is not always greener either when they remarried another Hmong woman. Sometimes that new Hmong wife is actually more problems than the old one...It really just depends on the situation..
Women's right, men's right...they're important but in a marriage, in relationship, it's understanding each other's need. Women do a better job and men still very poor.
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Most Hmong people are INSANE. By insane, I mean doing the same thing and expecting a different result! This applies to nearly every Hmong person I know and whatever crises they are currently experiencing. My unsolicitated advice is to take a few steps back, evaluate the situation, and find a solution to break free from the perpetual cycle. Just a thought.
I don't know if Insane is the right word but in a marriage, not willing to learn, get out of their comfort zone.
Well, why did she leave the old marriage? There are things that are universal to the Hmong. Then there are things that are individualisti c. If she divorced for something that is universal then might as well not marry another Hmong.
Marriage practices, gender roles (roles of wive/husband/children,e tc..) I know these are universal to the hmong but now I'm also saying the mass of hmong men also have universal thinking and only limited individualisti
c. Since this is the case, if a person marry a hmong man, whether 1 or 10, the chances of getting into a similar marriages is greater than a truly transform one.