I don't know OP nor do I know OP's significant other's point of view of/about OP.
Everything listed in bold is your bias opinion about us women in here. That's really sad because we never said she did anything wrong in her relationship. We obviously realize there are wonderful things she's doing that she's listed and we are simply touching bases on different perspective to look at (whether she has or hasn't yet...that we don't know).
Is it so wrong for us to even voice a perspective?
Obviously you have not read the entire thread.
She's said she's having issues with her husband.
She says he plays games all the time. To the point where he's skipping work just to play games. She hides his controllers and even toss the gaming system(totally understandable when you see that it's getting to the point of not normal anymore).
She says he doesn't clean.
She says he doesn't do the laundry.
She says he doesn't cook for himself.
She says he doesn't go shovel the snow.
She says she does the cleaning.
She says even after all the squabbles she has with him she still comes home and clean the house, do the laundry, and cook him food.
She goes outside and shove the snow.
She goes outside in the cold and wipe the snow off the car.
Read that.
And you girls are telling her that she needs to be patient? That she needs to change? She needs to be more understanding and change and compromise with her husband? Basically you're saying all those things she's doing is not enough. That she needs to do more. Yalls saying she needs to find a middle ground with her husband.
See what you're saying now?
Read. And if that is at the end of your day your voice of opinion, I will say to her again to not listen to you. She can't compromise anymore. There is nothing more to compromise. How do you compromise cooking for someone who doesn't cook for themself? How do you compromise doing the laundry when they don't do the laundry? What is she to do? Offer to let him play video games whenever and however long he want's as long as he does the laundry? He is already playing video games as long as he wants and whenever he wants and don't do the laundry.
How is she suppose to change? How is she suppose to work on herself? How is she to be a better wife? She is already a better wife? Is she suppose to cook a thanksgiving dinner evernight instead of a simple dinner? Because what she is doing is not good enough right?
Look, you're not even reading the whole thread. And like I said, if you still feel the same way, and if that's still your opinion, well I have to say again, she should not listen to you.
Yalls just too blind. You're not in her shoes. You don't know how to be in her shoes. It's unfortunate.
Like I said, it just blows my mind alot of the females in here can't even understand what's going on with her and practically blaming it on her.