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Any form of intimacy, time is precious and will not invest in ambiguity.
I agree, any form of intimacy, but on the flip side, we really don't know what we are capable of until we experience it first hand.
True. People act tough like it's unforgiveable, but when the time comes, they have to weigh it and say, "well, she's cheated on me but has realized her mistake, but who knows how many guys the next girls' been with too or will the next girl be worst than this one". Plus if kids are involved, some guys may want their kids to still have a mother since she never cheated on the kids.
Any form of cheating whether if it involves intimacy or not. A person may forgive in time but can't forget and that's why it doesn't work. The pain is too deep and it scars you forever. You are being reminded of it everyday even if you don't want to think about it and then there's the trust issues.
I hear that alot. Forgive but not forget. I think that's wrong. When people can't forget, its because they haven't forgiven. They just say they forgive, but they're still holding the pain in only. When you truly forgive someone, you let go of the pain. It no longer bothers you. That's true forgiveness. Not this forgive but can't forget approach. I think most people can't really forgive. They just say it and think that makes it real till the pain resurfaces again.
Yes! True forgiveness is hard to do. That is why people rather get even, or move on. Less hurtful and easier than holding that pain in and pretending that all is forgiven when it's not.
yeah, yeah, yeahhaven't this topic been brought up before? ya'll saying as though it's so easy just to forgive or move on. when it comes down to it, ya'll say one thing but may end up doing the total opposite.
soo.. you sound like you don't like this topic, but you actually do?