Dear Concerned,
Mind your own business just as she is doing hers.
It's her body, her right. If she chooses to expose anything you don't approve of, at least she isn't exposing yours.
But you are applying the wrong standard to her industry. She's an entertainer. Anything she can do to entertain--and, yes, to make money--she
has that right to do so. There's nothing wrong with making money.
Entertainers have their own ideas about life than others in other industries do. There's a competition to stand out among others in every way. Also, they may have children. But they may want to raise their children after their lines of work. Nothing wrong with that. If one of her daughters turns out to be a singer exposing her belly in a bikini on Facebook, that's their idea of life.
Yet, I don't think every of her children will follow her path.
I understand you are torn between a Celine-Dion mannerism who does not show her body to make money or be famous and an all-out Madonna who throws out
almost every bit of her onto the stage and on films. But who is to say singers have to behave in just one way? Remember: they are entertainers; whatever they can do to entertain and to stand out--and even to change perspectives--is key. Each singer wants to be unique and superior in his or her own way.
Now, if she's your role model, then just admire whatever she does. Even encourage your children to admire her. There's no need to put her down just because she has come up with a new idea to stand out in her line of work.
--Abby
Dear Abby,
I hope you don't mind me asking your thoughts on something. I used to like Dib Xwb because I thought she was classy and modest. But then she started losing judgement, in my opinion. I mean, I could be way off base. On the other hand, she reminds me of Ariana Grande, who went from innocent and sweet to slutty and trashy as far as body image goes. Dib Xwb became Deeda and, I mean, look at this: https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=500325488126704&id=100044477704451.
She has young kids, and she has daughters. Why would she have an onlyfans page posing in lingerie, where, her pictures leave little to the imagination at all? I don't know where her brain went. Or is it that she is that desperate for attention or money? Anyway, like I said, I used to love her because I thought she had integrity and was a role model for young Hmong girls. But she's proving to be another "expose thy body to earn a living" woman. I feel disappointed and let down yet again by another musician that I admired. I am fast losing respect for her.
Anyway, what do you think, Abby? Am I wrong in my assessment of Deeda's risque pictures?
Sincerely,
Concerned