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Would you allow your children to marry out of race?

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Re: Interracial marriages
« Reply #30 on: February 24, 2021, 04:00:18 PM »
Okay. I'll have to request my immigration documents from immigration office then. They should have everything on me from the time my family got interviewed in Ban Vinai to the time I got my Green Card here years ago. I think they even have info on my citizenship and passport, too.
Oh no, not interested in yours... but the little ones ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D



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« Reply #31 on: February 24, 2021, 04:17:42 PM »
One more year or so then?

But I'm not just talking. Nothing is going to change how I feel about this issue. I've seen enough of history. I know I accept diversity to the extreme.

Oh no, not interested in yours... but the little ones ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D



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« Reply #32 on: February 24, 2021, 04:57:16 PM »
Some Hmong guy and his non-Hmong wife about 10 years ago  ;D:




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« Reply #33 on: February 24, 2021, 05:01:46 PM »
This Hmong guy and his non-Hmong wife have been married for about 40 years now:




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« Reply #34 on: February 25, 2021, 07:36:58 AM »
Guess I’m the only one who voted no
Going get some weird looking hybrid kids

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Re: Interracial marriages
« Reply #35 on: February 25, 2021, 08:38:52 AM »
Tough call.  Hmong men today are still living in their parents basement so can't really blame the Hmong girls who want to marry to someone who is responsible, even out of race. On the other hand, Hmong girls nowadays don't really respect their body like 30+ years ago.  Chances are Hmong men will end up marrying someone who been around the world and taste the rainbow.  If that don't bother you, wait until you both argue and certain names get mention, it's the icing on the cake lol.  Conclusion, there's good and bad, pros and cons in either way you look at it so just do what works in your situation really.   


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« Reply #36 on: February 25, 2021, 12:33:10 PM »
To truly keep a nonHmong and for a nonHmong to truly keep a Hmong, there's a lot to do.

I'm serious.

Tough call.  Hmong men today are still living in their parents basement so can't really blame the Hmong girls who want to marry to someone who is responsible, even out of race. On the other hand, Hmong girls nowadays don't really respect their body like 30+ years ago.  Chances are Hmong men will end up marrying someone who been around the world and taste the rainbow.  If that don't bother you, wait until you both argue and certain names get mention, it's the icing on the cake lol.  Conclusion, there's good and bad, pros and cons in either way you look at it so just do what works in your situation really.



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« Reply #37 on: February 25, 2021, 12:38:14 PM »
Tough call.  Hmong men today are still living in their parents basement so can't really blame the Hmong girls who want to marry to someone who is responsible, even out of race. On the other hand, Hmong girls nowadays don't really respect their body like 30+ years ago.  Chances are Hmong men will end up marrying someone who been around the world and taste the rainbow.  If that don't bother you, wait until you both argue and certain names get mention, it's the icing on the cake lol.  Conclusion, there's good and bad, pros and cons in either way you look at it so just do what works in your situation really.

Lol

Whats with these basement hmong guy comment???
Got a fetish or something



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« Reply #38 on: February 25, 2021, 12:57:36 PM »
Ok, let's be a little vulnerable for a moment.. My biased towards interracial marriages is because of the cultural difference, values, beliefs, way of life, perspective of marriages, etc... When the going gets tough in the marriage, they (non hmong partner) bail out.  In the Asian cultures and similar across the board, when the going gets tough, many times we try and try again...becaus e marriage is a bond between individuals, family, and community...so everyone encouraged couples to stay, work before giving up. 



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« Reply #39 on: February 25, 2021, 01:12:41 PM »
Ok, let's be a little vulnerable for a moment.. My biased towards interracial marriages is because of the cultural difference, values, beliefs, way of life, perspective of marriages, etc... When the going gets tough in the marriage, they (non hmong partner) bail out.  In the Asian cultures and similar across the board, when the going gets tough, many times we try and try again...becaus e marriage is a bond between individuals, family, and community...so everyone encouraged couples to stay, work before giving up.

To truly keep a nonHmong and for a nonHmong to truly keep a Hmong, there's a lot to do.

I'm serious.




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« Reply #40 on: February 25, 2021, 01:15:03 PM »
Ok, let's be a little vulnerable for a moment.. My biased towards interracial marriages is because of the cultural difference, values, beliefs, way of life, perspective of marriages, etc... When the going gets tough in the marriage, they (non hmong partner) bail out.  In the Asian cultures and similar across the board, when the going gets tough, many times we try and try again...becaus e marriage is a bond between individuals, family, and community...so everyone encouraged couples to stay, work before giving up.

Thats meeka relationship for you
Married in the morning
Divorce at night

 ;D O0

Thats why i voted no
Plus weird looking kids



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« Reply #41 on: February 25, 2021, 01:16:46 PM »
Rock, do not mock around on this issue. We'll take your comments seriously to be discriminatory .

Thats meeka relationship for you
Married in the morning
Divorce at night

 ;D O0

Thats why i voted no
Plus weird looking kids



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« Reply #42 on: February 25, 2021, 11:45:36 PM »
Rock, do not mock around on this issue. We'll take your comments seriously to be discriminatory .

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Re: Interracial marriages
« Reply #43 on: February 26, 2021, 09:02:58 AM »
Guess I’m the only one who voted no
Going get some weird looking hybrid kids

Lol

You have definitely been living under a rock.

Don’t mock others and be careful what you say, you don’t have any kids yet and your grandchildren to come.



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« Reply #44 on: February 26, 2021, 09:08:12 AM »
If only I can vote another time

Half viet and half hmong.  Still looking like a china man so no stare from the public here.   :2funny:



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