This is why there are so many protestant branches be popping up. Someone saw a flaw in their current belief so they either modify or go on with a different religion.
I was with my friends and before my other buddy that has his affair marital shows up, we all be talking and back talking smack about the fool. When the fool shows up, no one even dares to open up their mouth to ask the dude any question. We got beer flowing so why not let the beer do the talking?
No one wants to be the fall guy but eventually, someone has to step up, put their reputation on the line to help resolve an issue.
Thus why this coming vegas trip, I'll get my azz loaded on liquor and will drill him with many questions like why he does it and why he gotta hurt his wife for? I'll be the fall guy but at least I get the answer that my boys are craving for. Besides, the fool already moving on with his new life and just like moving onto another job, as much as you want to keep in touch with former ex employees, you are gonna drift off and make a life with the current employees. It is human nature at its finest and that is why there is a study called psychology that is supposedly have an answer to the things that we humans act and behave.