Psychologist and marriage therapist John Duffy says so.
Things your spouse complains to same-sex friends about you and the problems in your relationships are:
1. the lack of sex or connection,
2. the boredom with the everyday,
3. the annoying habits,
4. the tightwad (stinginess), or
5. the overspending habits.--John Duffy, Psychologist (Source: CNN/May 6, 2021)