You do need to go on a honey to have it, R.
Don't need to but I bet for most women, if their man is able to surprised them by taking them to a romantic spot that they've always dream about, their juice will flow stronger during love making.
Many women just like those "just because" pleasant surprises and as a result, they'll love their lovers even more for taking the time, energy, effort and thought to set it up.
At least that's been my experience anyways..and yes, it's worth it IMO