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Are you scared or happy when you get married?
« on: June 02, 2021, 11:29:43 AM »
I'd think there's some elation about being hooked but isn't there some kind of fear about
what's to come? :2funny: :2funny:



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Re: Are you scared or happy when you get married?
« Reply #1 on: June 02, 2021, 11:53:58 AM »
Marriage isnít guaranteed so feeling both is rational but the joy should overwhelm the fear on that particular day. If it isnít, then these people shouldnít be getting married.



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Re: Are you scared or happy when you get married?
« Reply #2 on: June 02, 2021, 12:18:48 PM »
Any joy is temporary, isn't it?

I've seen couples who throw out a huge wedding costing thousands and thousands of dollars and then break up two weeks later.



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Re: Are you scared or happy when you get married?
« Reply #3 on: June 02, 2021, 12:47:21 PM »
If you have an ounce of fear or any doubts. Donít get hitched.



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Re: Are you scared or happy when you get married?
« Reply #4 on: June 02, 2021, 01:49:49 PM »
Happy but then I was happy before we got married since we lived together for about 3 year...And still happy...in fact, happier as the day goes.  O0



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Re: Are you scared or happy when you get married?
« Reply #5 on: June 11, 2021, 02:29:16 PM »
I was in a dream like state.



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Re: Are you scared or happy when you get married?
« Reply #6 on: July 11, 2021, 09:14:50 AM »
Although I should have been happy since I was dating him for a few months. I was scared and crying because I was taken.



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Re: Are you scared or happy when you get married?
« Reply #7 on: July 12, 2021, 10:30:05 AM »
The fear of long-term commitment without that spirited youthful freedom--that's frightening.

I was always carefree. But when I had my first girlfriend, I realized we had to contact each other everyday or things just won't sound right. That took so much of my times from many things. I needed times for my work, my hobbies, and other personal interests. I also didn't want to feel obligated to make a call or send a text everyday when I already knew just the day before that she was okay in every way. I didn't see a reason to communicate everyday. I've learned in life that too much of anything backfires quite often.

But I slowly realized lovers communicate everyday for two reasons: 1. reinforcing rapport/love, and 2. they simply miss each other or feel they had to prevent others from cutting into the relationship.

Many people want to be taken, to be owned or to have a sense of belonging in another's love.  But for the inexperienced, it could mean being restricted.

Although I should have been happy since I was dating him for a few months. I was scared and crying because I was taken.


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Re: Are you scared or happy when you get married?
« Reply #8 on: July 12, 2021, 10:43:29 AM »
i think when you get married you should be happy.  yes, there will be fears of the unknown because nobody knows what the future will bring.  but before marriage, hopefully a person has already thought long and hard, and they were very sure that they wanted to be forever with the person they were marrying.  like anything, marriage is not a guarantee.  it is at best, a sign of commitment towards someone.  hopefully the both of you always feel the same toward each other and both of you make it your goals to stay together to the end.  sometimes both people go into marriage with this mentality but then things change.  i guess, just be water.  go with the flow.  all you can do is give your best to the other person and do your best for your relationship. all relationships, all marriages, have ups and downs, and they take work.  you need to water it and take care of it.



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Re: Are you scared or happy when you get married?
« Reply #9 on: July 12, 2021, 11:13:56 AM »
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Re: Are you scared or happy when you get married?
« Reply #10 on: July 12, 2021, 11:24:53 AM »
you mean having doubts? 

cuz you don't know them like the way I know them for that one evening  :2funny:



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Re: Are you scared or happy when you get married?
« Reply #11 on: July 12, 2021, 04:43:04 PM »
No. I mean the responsibiliti es and restrictions and the loss of one's entire life's freedom.

you mean having doubts? 

cuz you don't know them like the way I know them for that one evening  :2funny:



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Re: Are you scared or happy when you get married?
« Reply #12 on: July 12, 2021, 06:30:00 PM »
No. I mean the responsibiliti es and restrictions and the loss of one's entire life's freedom.

Like getting yellow feet cuz knowing too much might be your set fall.  Like you gonna have to eat onegina for the rest of your life from here on out. 
Like you know you are now on the edge that qualifies you for the high divorcee statistics.
Like you know your freedom is cutting short cuz your every move needs the permission slip from the wife.
Like you know you gonna have ugly children coming  :2funny:

You only get these re-examining yourself phase if you get a lot of of different vagina since you got things to wager upon.  So reporter, you an undercover slick rick juan don or what?  For a guy who doesn't get much booty, these concerns should not be of his concern.  Getting married to them is like getting that permission to hit it daily if he wishes so if anything, he is excited for that.  Like the first time I'm meeting up with my internet gf, what you think I was thinking the whole drive or fly there?  yup, you know it.  It is that exciting.  Wish I got a vagina so you too can experiences it as well.   :2funny:




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Re: Are you scared or happy when you get married?
« Reply #13 on: July 22, 2021, 08:38:53 AM »
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Re: Are you scared or happy when you get married?
« Reply #14 on: July 24, 2021, 09:00:38 AM »
Ok.



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