What do men want from their women

[hmgROCK]

sexual intercourse

[Clould]

Anyway, what do you think?

What do men want from their women?

If men know what they want from their women, then there wouldn't be so many divorces and Hmong marrying a second or third wife. By the time they know what they want in a woman, then it is already too late because they are already deep in the marriage with her. That's because most men don't really know what they want until they are older. It is really a qi muag yuav. Man marry the woman whom he thought is the one that he wants because she has all of the qualities that he thought he wants. So until men reach a certain age where they start to really look inside them, know who they really are, and what they really want out of life, then it is just a dang she is hot, I gotta hit that thang mentality  . 

[lilly]

If men know what they want from their women, then there wouldn't be so many divorces and Hmong marrying a second or third wife. By the time they know what they want in a woman, then it is already too late because they are already deep in the marriage with her. That's because most men don't really know what they want until they are older. It is really a qi muag yuav. Man marry the woman whom he thought is the one that he wants because she has all of the qualities that he thought he wants. So until men reach a certain age where they start to really look inside them, know who they really are, and what they really want out of life, then it is just a dang she is hot, I gotta hit that thang mentality  .

Sounds about right.  Could apply to women too.

[Reporter]

An old Hmong comedian said Hmong men don't have enough good eyes. His proof: well, a man spent two eyes looking for a wife but later still said he got the wrong one and saw a better one out there.

Okay, eyeglass or contact prescriptions will help, huh, Clould?

If men know what they want from their women, then there wouldn't be so many divorces and Hmong marrying a second or third wife. By the time they know what they want in a woman, then it is already too late because they are already deep in the marriage with her. That's because most men don't really know what they want until they are older. It is really a qi muag yuav. Man marry the woman whom he thought is the one that he wants because she has all of the qualities that he thought he wants. So until men reach a certain age where they start to really look inside them, know who they really are, and what they really want out of life, then it is just a dang she is hot, I gotta hit that thang mentality  .

[VillainousHero]

The men or women who actually know what they want when they were young, probably wanted someone much much older than they are.  For example early twenties knowing and wanting someone in the late twenties or early thirties.  Of course no one wants to baby sit a youngun trying to cultivate them for life.  So it's a no go.

Then in current society those in their late twenties and early thirties, often are just as directionless as they were in their younger years.  So it's a whole another mess. 

People don't know what they want until they lost it, as it commonly goes.  Those that know what they want, well are constantly searching for it.  Cuz no one has what they want. 

Even if a person just wants a nice simple life, the other person will want something complicated or find conflicts in life.  If one person is very kind and helpful, they other person will simply take advantage of it.  It's too rare to have an appreciative person who will in kind return such kindness in two folds.

So sometimes as it finally goes, let them be free!