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Re: A Wedding
« Reply #15 on: December 03, 2021, 09:02:45 AM »
Nothing rare about it. That’s the norm for American or Asian wedding.
Speaking from what I see, it's not the norm especially for 2nd marriage and especially among older folks.  What is common is a special dinner between clans to sort things through, make it official, done. 

First marriage, yes, pretty common to see the traditional and the American style wedding.



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« Reply #16 on: December 03, 2021, 09:05:40 AM »
It has already been. Lol

She doesn't have to be perfect. I don't know of any human that's perfect. So, if I'm going to marry a human, I know I'll have to accept imperfection.

But she doesn't have to be Hmong. She can be of any other culture out there.

I sure hope it’s a human you’ll be marrying lol

I’m with you on that, follow your heart.



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« Reply #17 on: December 03, 2021, 09:06:39 AM »
Speaking from what I see, it's not the norm especially for 2nd marriage and especially among older folks.  What is common is a special dinner between clans to sort things through, make it official, done. 

First marriage, yes, pretty common to see the traditional and the American style wedding.

I believe it’s up to the couples if they want the whole nine even on their second wedding.



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« Reply #18 on: December 03, 2021, 09:36:13 AM »
I believe it’s up to the couples if they want the whole nine even on their second wedding.
Of course and most i've seen chose not to do the whole nine and to see this couple in the wedding video, it's just "rare", beautiful.



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Re: A Wedding
« Reply #19 on: December 03, 2021, 09:56:50 AM »
Those Japanese dolls and robots are out of the question.

I sure hope it’s a human you’ll be marrying lol

I’m with you on that, follow your heart.



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Re: A Wedding
« Reply #20 on: December 28, 2021, 07:51:42 PM »
For the Hmong people's sake, I highly suggest that single men and women wait until they're at least hitting 30 to marry.



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Re: A Wedding
« Reply #21 on: December 28, 2021, 08:00:48 PM »
Reporter needs a woman who is very low maintenance, naturally beautiful and intelligent/industrious - in that order.

I don't know why but I picture someone like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0gNY0KZ2nyY

Here is another one of her videos: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UvmC-leoj9U

She doesn't seem like someone who has time to gripe with a husband and it seems she would be content with any man.

Definitely opposite of the ex whom he lived with.



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Re: A Wedding
« Reply #22 on: December 31, 2021, 08:13:30 AM »
Someone has been looking me up. :knuppel2: :knuppel2: :knuppel2:


Reporter needs a woman who is very low maintenance, naturally beautiful and intelligent/industrious - in that order.

I don't know why but I picture someone like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0gNY0KZ2nyY

Here is another one of her videos: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UvmC-leoj9U

She doesn't seem like someone who has time to gripe with a husband and it seems she would be content with any man.

Definitely opposite of the ex whom he lived with.



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