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You can't change the past and can't predict the future but used this double whammy challenging moment to excel and thrive as a person because you can still make your own successful path:

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Chinese teen sold at birth is rejected by his biological parents after finding them online

A teenager in China who was sold at birth was left heartbroken after finally finding his birth parents and then being rejected by them..


Liu Xuezhou, 17, from China’s Hebei Province, posted about the heartbreaking reunion on Douyin on Monday, according toSouth China Morning Post

Liu managed to find his biological parents with the help of local authorities after he was reportedly encouraged to make a post online. After doing a DNA test, police were able to locate the teenager's father, Ding Shuangquan, and his mother, whose name was not revealed.

Local authorities held a reunion for Liu and his father last month, and he then went to Inner Mongolia to meet his mother a week ago. However, neither of them wanted him around.

Liu said his father was worried about taking the teenager into his new family and said his new wife might divorce him. The teenager's birth mother allegedly told him, "There would be someone else if your adoptive parents didn’t buy you."

The teenager found out he has four siblings and a half-sibling. He also shared that his parents allegedly “felt they were being forced to support him once their story was made public.”

According to Liu, who is now a second-year college student in the city of Shijiazhuang in Hebei Province, his birth parentssold him to a middleman after he was born in 2005. They paid a bride price to his mother’s family with the money they received. The two eventually divorced, and now each has their own family.

Disaster struck when Liu’s adoptive parents were killed during an explosion in their home in Nangong when Liu was 4 years old. His adoptive grandparents eventually took him in, but he reportedly moved around and also lived with other relatives.

Liu, who has had several odd jobs in the past and lived on government subsidy for orphans, will continue receiving the local government’s help even though he is technically no longer an orphan, according to the deputy head of the civil affairs department of Dacun township.



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A Chinese teenager sold at birth for adoption is now planning to take his biological parents to court. Liu Xuezhou, 17, said on Thursday that he will sue his biological mother and father after they both rejected him and refused to help him financially, South China Morning Post reported.





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Well, that's too bad...He must've been that heart broken  ???:

The internet helped a Chinese teenager find the parents who sold him as a baby. When they rejected him, he took his own life.

A teen reportedly died by suicide after his search for his birth parents went viral on social media and they rejected him.

Liu Xuezhou took his own life at a beach in Sanya, a city in Hainan province, the teenager's aunt Chai Mou told Chinese media. Sanya police confirmed his death to the Chinese outlet The Paper.

Liu's story first came to national attention when he posted a video on December 6 asking for help finding his biological family.

The teen said in the video he was born between 2004 and 2006 in Hebei province and was sold by his biological parents to his adoptive parents when he was three months old.

Liu's biological mother, identified by Chinese outlets only as Ms. Zhang, disputes this. She told The Paper that they planned on giving their son away and not selling him, but that the middleman who sold Liu to his adoptive parents insisted on gifting them money.

According to Liu, his adoptive parents died in a fireworks accident when he was 4. Liu said he then lived with his grandparents — the parents of his adoptive mother — and received child support from his grandparents on his adoptive father's side.

Liu said last year that he was working part-time to pay for his studies at a vocational school and was scraping by. Last week, he posted a photo of a dilapidated house, claiming it was where he stayed.




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This story is just sad. 

But if someone just drop into your life and start demanding and is going to bankrupt you, how do you feel?

It is not fair for the biological parents and they shouldn't even be bothered over this coup out suicide and weak excuses by this entitled child.  This kid already planned it all along with the mind of a psychotic psychopath. 

If you want a happy ending, you find your parents and you leave them alone.  You don't find them and start demanding them to financially supporting you. 

They should attend his funeral and reject him for the 3rd and final time. 



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Selfish parents and not surprised by the ending.  He hung on to this one thread of hope, last lifeline - finding his birth parents and no lifeline was giving, hopelessness, sadness, and more drove him to his death.

Some people can rise from the pit of misery/hopelessness to make something of themselves like the saying, "what doesn't kill you will make you stronger" but others cannot.



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Having kids is NOT a requirement in life so don't force it if you're not ready. Otherwise, it's not fair to the kid...

After my wife and I got married, it took us a couple years to decide if we want kids or not...

We've decided to start with one and the reassess. Been several years now and we are still very content with one and done... O0



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