...and yep, have visited all the cities listed below except Burlington and Overland Park:
Seeing SF, Oakland, Fargo, Bismark, etc etc on that is list... sounds sketchy to me.
Well, if you like bone chill ice cold temp then you'll be happy in Fargo... or if you enjoy living with crimes than Oakland and SF is a happy place for you, I guess.
Unless you lived in each state for 1 yr minimum... I don't believe in these "I like this state, that state, etc etc the most" comparisons.
I've lived in 5 states for over 5 years each and they all have their good and bad... not one is above the others.