...the sons they brought over to America go and marry a non-Hmong wife. Especially when they sacrificed everything to get their sons to America so the sons can have a chance to get a good education, obtain a good job, and start a family.
And they're even more "tu siab" if they were in an abusive marriage.
They're really hoping to live with their sons and their daughter-in-laws. They're hoping to grow old in their son's home and have their daughter-in-laws take care of them.