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Yes. We don't want a man who chased everybody nor do we want a man who settled for a woman out of convenience.
I'm saying that real love involves making a sacrifice. However, if you keep telling that person about the sacrifice(s) you made for them then it's not real love. You are just manipulating them to feel guilty so that they'll stay with you. Even if they stay, they don't love you back and you'll feel their resentment.
Ariel gave up her voice and her happy life for Prince Eric without telling him. He didn't choose her so she died. He gonna find out soon that he got the sea witch instead!
The type of man to be careful with is the one who will do grand gestures that look like he's taking action towards commitment with you. A lot of women have fallen for this. This man will do things that are typically only husband role: help pay some of your bills, cosign to purchases, perform yard work, watch your kids (if you're a single mother), etc. But in actuality, what I noticed, is that this man is looking for a part-time family. He's just very lonely and feeling excluded from his own married siblings/cousins/etc. He wants the benefits of having a family without true commitment and obligations.
I see a lot of this situationship nowadays. Especially divorced dudes whose exes left them high and dry.
