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Relationship => Marriage & Family Life => Topic started by: Dok_Champa on May 11, 2021, 12:04:41 PM
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Did you have one?
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When I get married, I am not going to Thailand for a honeymoon.
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Where did you always want to go?
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Wherever she wants. But I think she'll want Hawaii. We're gonna do a cruise from Alaska after one week of daylight there to Hawaii.
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Let me just add a few thoughts. You and I live in the US so places like Hawaii, tropical places, are beautiful to us, unique. A person that has lived in tropical places will find them "normal" and so places like US will be "unique" to them, more special. I remember my husband and I visited his childhood village wayyyyyyyyyyy up in the mountains and it was sooooooooooooo oooooo beautiful, breathtaking to me. I couldn't stop "oooo and ahhhhhh" but to him, "it was nothing special.." Something like that.
So maybe go to places she's never been before, very unique to her like Europe, Italy (Venice), Greece like Santorini....
Just a thought...
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Well, you don't understand. There's plenty of fishing opportunities between Alaska and Hawaii. That is unique to both of us.
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Well, you don't understand. There's plenty of fishing opportunities between Alaska and Hawaii. That is unique to both of us.
So you go for the "fishing opportunities"... Well, if that's the case, Alaska it is. Great for fishing for sure. The best. Is this for you or for her?....Hmmmmm.... ....
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You think I'm going to go on a honeymoon that I didn't like?
She says she will fish, too.
Once in Hawaii, we'll be eating out all over those islands.
So you go for the "fishing opportunities"... Well, if that's the case, Alaska it is. Great for fishing for sure. The best. Is this for you or for her?....Hmmmmm.... ....
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You think I'm going to go on a honeymoon that I didn't like?
She says she will fish, too.
Once in Hawaii, we'll be eating out all over those islands.
I'm beginning to think this honeymoon is "MORE" your idea to kill two birds w/ one stone (fishing & honeymoon). ***shakes head...******
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Yes, I had a honeymoon. It was nice.
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Yes, I had a honeymoon. It was nice.
Where did you go?
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Did you have one?
Yes and it was paid for by the wedding guests. O0
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Yes and it was paid for by the wedding guests. O0
Where did you go for your honeymoon, if you don't mind sharing....
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Iceland.
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Of course.
When I see water, I want to cast. How do you expect me to do a cruise without casting?
I'm beginning to think this honeymoon is "MORE" your idea to kill two birds w/ one stone (fishing & honeymoon). ***shakes head...******
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Of course.
When I see water, I want to cast. How do you expect me to do a cruise without casting?
This is the ONE day and ONE event where a person (someone who loves to fish) should be blind to casting and the word "fishing" erased and ban. When a person see water, the only word associated should be "swim w/ the dolphins" something like that..
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Iceland.
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Okay. I'll let her decide then. But I know that she might choose Thailand so we can see dolphins swim in Phuket.
This is the ONE day and ONE event where a person (someone who loves to fish) should be blind to casting and the word "fishing" erased and ban. When a person see water, the only word associated should be "swim w/ the dolphins" something like that..
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Okay. I'll let her decide then. But I know that she might choose Thailand so we can see dolphins swim in Phuket.
Take her somewhere (an environment) she's never been to before so she can go "ooooooo and ahhhhhhhhh." Thailand is her comfort zone. But at the end of the day, I'm thinking the decision will be based on "convenient." That's the key word. Let's just get it over with and go home ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
Tsis romantic kiag li lod!
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If you are married and want to have sex, you don't have to go on a honey to have it. Try at home.
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If you are married and want to have sex, you don't have to go on a honey to have it. Try at home.
That's not even in my mind when I was making those comments. Far from it. I was talking more on the environment, the place, the location. I don't care what people do behind closed doors.
But you made an interesting comment, that's exactly what some people will do, they think that's what a honeymoon is and so no need for one, at home is sufficient. But that's not what a honeymoon is.
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You do need to go on a honey to have it, R.
If you are married and want to have sex, you don't have to go on a honey to have it. Try at home.
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A honey that's as romantic as going up to the moon?
That's not even in my mind when I was making those comments. Far from it. I was talking more on the environment, the place, the location. I don't care what people do behind closed doors.
But you made an interesting comment, that's exactly what some people will do, they think that's what a honeymoon is and so no need for one, at home is sufficient. But that's not what a honeymoon is.
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You do need to go on a honey to have it, R.
and I support the suggestion O0 O0 O0 O0A honey that's as romantic as going up to the moon?
and I support this too O0 O0 O0 O0 O0
Yes everyday can be a honeymoon but technically you only have a honeymoon once like a wedding once, create beautiful memories.
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A White couple I used to know got divorced and married every year in a different state. They wanted to marry in all of the states, they said.
50 honeymoons, eh?
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You do need to go on a honey to have it, R.
Don't need to but I bet for most women, if their man is able to surprised them by taking them to a romantic spot that they've always dream about, their juice will flow stronger during love making.
Many women just like those "just because" pleasant surprises and as a result, they'll love their lovers even more for taking the time, energy, effort and thought to set it up. O0
At least that's been my experience anyways..and yes, it's worth it IMO 8)
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A lady I know says her romantic spot is in the theater watching an old Sylvestallone movie--either "Rambo: First Blood" or "Cliff Hanger."
Don't need to but I bet for most women, if their man is able to surprised them by taking them to a romantic spot that they've always dream about, their juice will flow stronger during love making.
Many women just like those "just because" pleasant surprises and as a result, they'll love their lovers even more for taking the time, energy, effort and thought to set it up. O0
At least that's been my experience anyways..and yes, it's worth it IMO 8)