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General Relationship / Re: ran into my fling of 15 years ago......

« on: December 17, 2016, 06:06:07 AM »

Pregnant women are the horniest during a certain time. Read up on why.

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General Relationship / Re: I'm looking for a female with QUALITY WIFEY MATERIAL

« on: December 17, 2016, 06:01:36 AM »

If you are already dating someone and you don't feel this way with her, lose her. You are just wasting her time.

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General Relationship / Re: What to do with your significant other low sex drive?

« on: November 11, 2016, 12:40:57 AM »

Cheat or leave? Pretty dumb.

Learn to use lubricants, oils, toys, role play. Try all different methods. Just understand that she may be exhausted from her full time job as well. Or maybe you aren't satisfying her enough?

If it's just a shrimp, it's a waste of time but if it's a dragon, I'm sure the girl would be all up on it.

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General Relationship / Re: This should give you even more reasons to "dump" him

« on: November 11, 2016, 12:32:59 AM »

Being 14, she should let her parents know of this crazy boy. Then find a way to move far away, cancel phone numbers, email, Facebook, whatever she gots to do. 

10 years down the line, she'll realize he's still alive.

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Money & Investment / Re: Inherit money

« on: October 26, 2016, 05:13:43 PM »

Like everyone mentioned, i would take some of it to put down for my rental properties and invest the rest in an ira account. Leave it there, don't touch it. Now if I wanted to be a bit playful, I would take a few thousands and play it safe in the market.

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Entrepreneurial Minds / Re: List Reasons Why Hmong Businesses Don't Grow

« on: October 26, 2016, 05:02:27 PM »

She probably assessed the risk and cost. Whereas the professor may have expendable money and can risk opening businesses and having employees.

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Dear Dr. PebHmong / Re: dating traditional insecure hmong women

« on: October 26, 2016, 12:02:33 PM »

Here is a story:

Boy: I can't move out. I got to take care of my parents. Everyone will say I abandoned them.
Girl: I can't live like this. Your parents treat me like shlts. They lie to the whole world that I am a monster. When people see me, they give me the stink eye. I have never disobeyed your parents or mistreated them.
Boy: Don't listen to them. What matters is us. Not them. Don't listen to gossip. Just be yourself. Everyone will love you as much as I do.
Girl: ok. Because I know you have to take care of them, I'll be patient.

Mom: leave that no good monster wife you have. You are Hmong, I can buy you 10 wives.
Boy: ok mom.

You asked for a story.

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Re: Divorce is so scary

« on: October 26, 2016, 06:47:19 AM »

Pamper yourself. Get a massage. Go to the spa.

Learn to forgive. Learn to let go. It will hurt a lot because it will feel as if no one understands. So take a trip. Go on an adventure and live freely. Try to find happiness in the small things. Keep busy. Cry your heart and eyes out to strangers. Forgive him and forgive yourself. Time will heal.

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The Single & Dating Scenes / Re: ...you don't deserve the best if me

« on: October 26, 2016, 06:39:54 AM »

It's a test that all men fails at.

Do you really read into it? Lol

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General Relationship / Re: If a typical Hmong guy dates this Brazilian Model, it would be similar to this..

« on: October 26, 2016, 06:33:46 AM »

Lmao Hmong guys are all short anyways. But now he can climb all over her and be the one getting tossed around. Lol

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General Relationship / Re: Now I want a young wife, is this a phase?

« on: October 26, 2016, 06:30:07 AM »

When you first got with your fiancé, you knew she had a child and you still accepted it. What did you think was going to happen to the child? He dies?

You have never been married and no kids. It is common to feel the need to marry someone with the same. But if you do, will you still think of your fiancé? Will you miss her?

Yes you are selfish. But do what you have the courage to do. Sometimes guys are just chicken shlt. All talk and no game.

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General Relationship / Re: What IS a Gentleman?

« on: October 26, 2016, 06:18:55 AM »

Someone mentioned that a gentleman is always two steps ahead, mentally, physically. I concur.
I see so much chivalry at work. When a man opens a door for me, I quickly fasten my pace and thank him. I don't keep him waiting. The same for holding elevators, pulling out chairs, letting the ladies go first. It's very sweet and considerate. They don't have to but they do it.

In this story, even if the lady was surprised by his action, she did thank him. What may have triggered his reaction was when she told him he didn't have to and just relax. He did make an attempt. Even if delayed, he did try. However  he killed it with throwing her food at her. That's like throwing food at a wild animal. Even feeding my dog, I don't throw food. That's definetly no gentleman. That's an assh0e trying very little to be nice for once. I would have dropped kick his butt.

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Work Avenue / Re: why are people so afraid to disagree or ask their bosses honest questions?

« on: October 20, 2016, 11:11:33 AM »

If you are a lead, you can take your boss aside or ask him for some time to discuss it. Some bosses will appreciate their employee or lead letting them know if things or behaviours arent acceptable.
I listen often to my lead and employees. To me, we are all the same. No special treatment. Its just that we have different responsibiliti es. I always have an open door policy so anyone can openly talk to me of any concerns, positive or negative. It boost morale.
I think your new boss is probably getting the title to his or her head, but also understand, we are responsible for a lor, including our people. But it doesnt hurt to talk to her/him. You can possibly even say in a suggesting way, hey how about we do it this way instead of that way..
Hope it all works out for you.

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General Relationship / Re: 7 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD TRAVEL WITH YOUR PARTNER

« on: September 07, 2016, 01:23:34 AM »

I don't know you but I am really happy for you. It takes a good man to compliment a great woman. If she brings you endless excitement and fills your life full of happiness to your heart's content, don't let go. hope to hear more great things in the future. thanks for sharing with us your adventures. stay safe.

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General Relationship / Re: So much about love...........

« on: September 07, 2016, 01:14:57 AM »

Lol wow. A lot of bitterness.