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General Discussion / No chicken No Eat!

« on: June 06, 2019, 06:11:48 PM »

So I saw a posting on FB...It was cute and all, but then I really begin to notice the behavior.  The actual tone of voice and the authoritative demeanor and hand gestures.

To say that such a child mimicking this behavior from where ever it was picked up...very high tendency to roll over into overbearing controlling antipathy.

Now to say that if the one child would go and hug the other child and then lead the other child over to get a replacement chicken for the one that fell on the ground.

Just shaking my head...

https://www.facebook.com/foew.chang/videos/10219840527423380/

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Health & Fitness / Motivation for...

« on: June 06, 2019, 05:54:11 PM »

A little something I wrote on a whim for those who lacks motivation at some point...

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Motivation

When there is no goal, no desire, no vision, it’s easy to say there is no motivation.  The method is in reverse order, so let me explain.  You state your goal.  You must also have the desire to reach your goal otherwise your goal is pointless.  Now you have to have the vision for achieving that goal otherwise your desire is pointless.  In application for example, building a better body, more physical fitness, a healthier endurance per say.  Most people will put forth some effort in the early stages.  They will go gather some knowledge and acquire some skills to work on the basics.  Remember that early motivation there.

You start working out, two weeks, 4 weeks, and so forth to 8 weeks.  You feel results almost immediately.  You begin to see results midway there.  You are able to show results by week 8.  What happens following afterwards is the plateau effect.  Your body adjusts and now it gets comfortable.

Your mentality follows the same synchronizatio n.  Your mind hungry and try out the new routines.  You learn what’s working and get familiar with it.  You achieve a mental high after sharing your results, even if it’s just a mirror reflection result.  Your state of mind is happy and satiated.

The lack of motivation sets.  Listen, your goals will always need to change.  Your desire must always be hungry for those goals.  Your vision must always fuel your desire.  Now apply that.

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Work Avenue / Interviewing and Hiring:

« on: May 29, 2019, 04:23:25 PM »

Interviewing and Hiring:

I like giving my Hmong peeps the opportunity to work with me.  There has been mixed results.  Well it just seem that the ratio of bad eggs hatching faster than good ones.

So my boss hired one Hmong guy and two Hmong girls.  Young teenagers age 16-18 yrs.  Turns out this guy at first was making complaints behind my back.  Then he eventually sack one of the Hmong girls and quits the job.  The Hmong girl in the end told me about his jealousy of me before she ended up quitting too.  I felt bad for her, but your choice dating is yours.  Not my problem beyond the work place.

First of all, I'm old enough to be your parent.  Second of all, I'm your superior.  Third, why am I always the subject of "You People's" sexual tension?

This is the work place...not your J4 playground.

Have I been so out of the loop?  Is today's society trying to mimic what people see/watch in teevee and whatever social media reality entertainment show?

That just reminded me how back when I was a young new hiree and people were talking about these soap-opera television shows at work.

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Marriage & Family Life / Dirty Old Man! Skanky Old Woman! Or so they claim.

« on: May 29, 2019, 02:47:28 PM »

LOL...I am at age that when I was a young buck...I thought my uncles and other older guys were...Dirty Old Men.  Or so they claimed.

The way they talk about the opposite sex and all and how many scores they've had.

What's even more equally is how the aunties or older lady talk...How I hooked and caught that guy and kept him in tow.     He was pussy whooped!  They talked as if they were Skanky Old Women.  Or so they claimed.

Why do these marriages work?  Perhaps they've got nothing to hide.  All the good and bad was open door and everyone sort of knew and kept them in tow.  Most of all was probably each person wanted to still be a parent to their children and stuck with it.  Hence they were willing to contribute to the overall good of being a family.

Now the ones that were like "perfect" somehow always had the marital argument behind closed doors...yeah but loud enough that people could hear from across the parking lot.  You get the vibe that they were unhappy about something.  Each person wanted something selfish for themselves.  Their stubborn and unwillingness personality overshadowed what their family roles and responsibiliti es should have entail.

In a sense I think it was the grandpas and grandmas at the time who always gives good advice due to their life long accumulation of experiences and exposure to other's experiences.  It was always in a light-hearted humor fashion.  I miss my grandpas and grandmas even though they've all passed away.

Well I ain't no official grandpa or grandma yet, but I am at that age where the uncles and aunties at that times were like so.

Just feeling nostalgic about some old time memories that surfaced.  The time to talk about the birds and bees to the kids is coming...

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General Discussion / Everything on You Tube is true

« on: May 28, 2019, 11:07:11 AM »

 

I still laugh when people tell me...what they saw on You Tube...is true.

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General Discussion / Is it so strange?

« on: May 28, 2019, 11:04:13 AM »

Is it so strange that when I tell people...

I don't watch TV
I don't listen to music
I don't you tube
I don't snap chat

No way I'm telling them I PH...

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Outdoors & Recreational Hobbies / New Fishing Pole

« on: May 26, 2019, 05:18:34 PM »

It's not that I need a new fishing pole...I just decided to treat myself to one.

I have been a St. Croix rod fanboy for a while, but I've decided to spread out into the Shimano rods some.  I just went to Joe's Sporting Goods and as usual their selection of rods are sort of dismal.  However they did have one rod that I've been sort of wanting for a while.  7' ML in baitcasting rod Shimano Zodias.

Originally I was contemplating about the St. Croix Legend Tournament in 6'10" ML casting rod retailing just shy of $300.  Compared to Shimano Zodias 7' ML coming in at $200 retail.  The Shimano rod is a bit softer compared to the St. Croix.  There was a Diawa rod Chronos 7' ML but it was significantly stiffer in flex compared to the Shimano Zodias.  Although the Diawa was cheaper in at $169 Joe's retail, the handle component was also drastically cheaper in quality when compared side by side to the Shimano Zodias.

I also played with some of the Shimano Conquest rods, but at #%@#  $600 ouch pearls.

The 7' ML Shimiano Zodias came home with me.  Now I just need to pair it with a reel.

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Outdoors & Recreational Hobbies / New lure to try

« on: April 13, 2019, 01:30:18 AM »

As always, there's only so much lures in similarity.  It's just that, that similarity but yet subtle difference that makes it look all sparkly like jewelry that you have to try.

I'm on the hunt and looking...

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Anime | Manga / Hina Festival

« on: April 13, 2019, 01:19:06 AM »

Of all the anime, this one is a must watch.  In simplicity about doing what's right and just realizing things that people do are just wrong and what it takes to make it right.  On top of it all, a tear jerker scene and even an ultimate clash...most of all, best as a parenting hand guide in a comical way.    Even the title is misleading.

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Anime | Manga / Maquia: When the Promised Flower Blooms

« on: February 13, 2019, 03:20:34 AM »

A tear jerker for sure. 

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Movies / Attack on Titan

« on: January 23, 2019, 07:28:55 PM »

Didn't know there was a asian made Attack on Titan movie. So I'm going to watch it.

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Dear Dr. PebHmong / Assessment performance reviews

« on: January 09, 2019, 12:14:28 PM »

What I always wonder about?  Even if it's an honest assessment given by either a colleague or from a supervisor.

I was told I was impatient.

That stuck out weird, because, patience is actually one of my strengths.  Was it assessed in the wrong scenario or what?

I get if compared to how I work, yes, I'm a beast, superhuman skill. 

I get that there's always two sides to each and everything.  The glass half full or half empty perspective.

As described by two different customers.  One says, it's like he's putting a high speed show on like only what you see on tv.  Another just says, he's throwing things around sloppy and it happens to land right.

So when my patience runs out...after giving an employee like two dozen chances to fix said problem and trying various methods of training over the past several months.  Yes, company standards, standard training etc.,..to simplified steps, written cards, post it, children rhymes, etc.,...I'm told I'm impatient because I said, "I don't know what else to do because I'm out of ideas.  I would like you to come up with a solution." yes, even empowering said individual to take accountability for themselves.

Should I just give up early?  Accept that people just can't learn or just refuse to learn.

and then this comes back.

"I can't learn because of his training methods...."

Um you watched the training video, everything was taught according to company standards - training video...

"It's because you were impatient..."

It's a one minute lesson...peopl e do it in one minute and become expert in one minute...it's taken said employee three months and not able to master this...after three months and I have the quality of being impatient.  None of these observers, were here for the past three months...

I need to work on being more stupid like everybody else...that's what my performance review tells me.  I was too stupid to play that.

Tell me I'm stupid...

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Outdoors & Recreational Hobbies / Ice Fishing 2018-19

« on: December 12, 2018, 03:56:01 AM »

Been a few years...this time we're going ice fishing again in just a few weeks here.

New stuff, since old stuff broke or needs heavy repair.

Eskimo 949i shelter
Beaverdam Noodle Rod 32"

Some new lures
Z viber
Z darter
Rapala Rippin Rap ultralight

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Health & Fitness / Foot Angel

« on: May 12, 2016, 03:45:15 AM »

As seen on TV

Yes testing this Foot Angel.  It looks like compression toeless sock.  Worn it for about six hours.  Yes compression toeless sock.  Well my feet wasn't sore or achy on my day off, so I didn't find any advantage to it, but great for the flip flops as a toeless sock.

Now I've got other tight socks that are compression like and does about the same job.

To be honest, I think being toeless will just make the foot angel sock ride up.  I did not wear it in any shoes or boots, but maybe a test for another time.

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Outdoors & Recreational Hobbies / ice fishing 2016

« on: January 04, 2016, 03:17:25 AM »

Yes, where's the hot bite at?  Not phalen...cuz big crappies aren't hitting there...