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Title: Men help
Post by: Cookies on May 02, 2021, 08:52:40 PM
There are two types of men.  The 1st type is, when they have an affair they are super happy and they treat the wife better.  The 2nd type of men, he would pick  fight and drove off; came back and the wife can’t ask a question or she is a B!

The super nice men, I could understand why he’s happy because of guilt he treats his wife better.  Now, what about the one that always pick a  fight and then drove off for an hour and came back and if the wife asked where he went, she’s a B.

Will you let the 2nd men go or would you give him another chance.   Now she let him go for good.. why would he be calling everyone and cried like an idiot. 
Title: Re: Men help
Post by: theking on May 02, 2021, 09:46:46 PM
Depends on the individual but if his actions caused you to be miserable then I would say let him go or get away from him because living a life of misery ain't much living...IMO.

Him crying like an idiot is probably due to regret and remorse but if he's 100% at fault then he only has himself to blame.
Title: Re: Men help
Post by: Cookies on May 03, 2021, 12:53:20 AM
Depends on the individual but if his actions caused you to be miserable then I would say let him go or get away from him because living a life of misery ain't much living...IMO.

Him crying like an idiot is probably due to regret and remorse but if he's 100% at fault then he only has himself to blame.

Thanks buddy!  This man will never learn.
Title: Re: Men help
Post by: tRouBLe on May 04, 2021, 06:50:28 PM
There are more than just those two types of men and the ones you’re referring to are really boys in men’s bodies. She should leave the boys and focus on herself.  Eventually she’ll find/meet someone worthy, if she is worthy herself.   O0
Title: Re: Men help
Post by: DuMa on May 04, 2021, 07:03:18 PM
Where do people come up with these types of problems cuz like literally, I don't get enough of a problem or any problems that I do get, I know how to get out of it before she escalates. 

It is a  push and pull game.  Even when I'm wrong, the women are 100% right.  Why?  Cuz we men and real men can take a beating.  I don't care about male ego and what not.  I already won, knowing that I gave up my rights and liberty just to see her happy. 

Baby, I've gone a long way to grow into this matured guy that some women wishes they can have to ease their relationship's drama for their mama types of scenario.  Then again, she might get tired of a 0 conflict relationship and may wants some drama in her life just so she can cry and be a real women who likes to cry once again.  Oh the suffering on both sides, I know.   :2funny:

Title: Re: Men help
Post by: Reporter on May 18, 2021, 04:36:29 AM
There are two kinds of men? Or just two kinds?

I think there’s a third kind and a fourth also.

The third kind is one who neither cheats nor calls his wife a B.

The fourth kind is one who may have a cheating wife.
Title: Re: Men help
Post by: ThisIsHowImetYou on May 18, 2021, 09:42:16 PM
Burn all the bridges and boats and live on the island by yourself. Single life is the best life.
Title: Re: Men help
Post by: Hung_Low on May 26, 2021, 01:10:08 PM
There are two types of men.  The 1st type is, when they have an affair they are super happy and they treat the wife better.  The 2nd type of men, he would pick  fight and drove off; came back and the wife can’t ask a question or she is a B!

The super nice men, I could understand why he’s happy because of guilt he treats his wife better.  Now, what about the one that always pick a  fight and then drove off for an hour and came back and if the wife asked where he went, she’s a B.

Will you let the 2nd men go or would you give him another chance.   Now she let him go for good.. why would he be calling everyone and cried like an idiot.

Sorry this happened to you...
Title: Re: Men help
Post by: Clould on September 23, 2021, 11:38:21 PM
There are two types of men.  The 1st type is, when they have an affair they are super happy and they treat the wife better.  The 2nd type of men, he would pick  fight and drove off; came back and the wife can’t ask a question or she is a B!

The super nice men, I could understand why he’s happy because of guilt he treats his wife better.  Now, what about the one that always pick a  fight and then drove off for an hour and came back and if the wife asked where he went, she’s a B.

Will you let the 2nd men go or would you give him another chance.   Now she let him go for good.. why would he be calling everyone and cried like an idiot.

The second type has issues that needs to be work out. Serious personal issues. Do what you gotta do to be safe.

There is but. The second type could be doing it because he has a wife that just want to pick fights. She picks fights with him. He gets mad and took off to cool down. When he returns, she instigates the problem more and he finally blows up calling her for what she is.
Title: Re: Men help
Post by: Believe_N_Me on July 27, 2022, 12:09:57 AM
There are two types of men.  The 1st type is, when they have an affair they are super happy and they treat the wife better.  The 2nd type of men, he would pick  fight and drove off; came back and the wife can’t ask a question or she is a B!

The super nice men, I could understand why he’s happy because of guilt he treats his wife better.  Now, what about the one that always pick a  fight and then drove off for an hour and came back and if the wife asked where he went, she’s a B.

Will you let the 2nd men go or would you give him another chance.   Now she let him go for good.. why would he be calling everyone and cried like an idiot.

He's not nice to the wife out of guilt. He's nice because the other woman gives him peace so he comes home feeling happier. 
Title: Re: Men help
Post by: king james on July 27, 2022, 01:19:04 PM
There are two types of men.

how many types of women though?  :2funny:
Title: Re: Men help
Post by: Believe_N_Me on July 27, 2022, 01:24:25 PM
how many types of women though?  :2funny:

According to the left, MANY, MANY, MANY, MANY x infinity.  ::) Even those with a penis.
Title: Re: Men help
Post by: navy on January 18, 2023, 12:12:42 PM
how many types of women though?  :2funny:

there are many women but only one that is true created for you to command, that woman would be your soulmate
Title: Re: Men help
Post by: Reporter on January 19, 2023, 01:53:00 PM
how many types of women though?  :2funny:

Just one type--the type we don't know how to handle.
Title: Re: Men help
Post by: VillainousHero on January 28, 2023, 05:09:10 PM
The good the bad
The ugly and handsome  :D
Title: Re: Men help
Post by: Believe_N_Me on January 29, 2023, 10:15:47 PM
Just one type--the type we don't know how to handle.

R,

I think someone wrote an entire book about how to understand women. I believe the pages were completely blank.  :)
Title: Re: Men help
Post by: Reporter on January 30, 2023, 08:38:16 PM
R,

I think someone wrote an entire book about how to understand women. I believe the pages were completely blank.  :)

I saw that book in college, BNM. The author is a psychologist or psychiatrist.
Title: Re: Men help
Post by: Believe_N_Me on January 31, 2023, 12:04:00 PM
I saw that book in college, BNM. The author is a psychologist or psychiatrist.

Maybe people are suppose to write-in their own observations and experiences with women?????
Title: Re: Men help
Post by: Reporter on January 31, 2023, 12:26:01 PM
Maybe people are suppose to write-in their own observations and experiences with women?????

No. It means there's nothing we know about women. In other words, we don't know anything about women. That's why the author can't even write anything down.

I think the author is referring to a woman's behaviors though. There are things we do  know about women: women conceive and give birth, proliferating life of that kind; women eat foods and drink liquid just as men do. Um...that might be it. :2funny: