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Relationship => Marriage & Family Life => Topic started by: YAX on September 10, 2017, 08:15:51 AM

Title: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: YAX on September 10, 2017, 08:15:51 AM
How do you respond?
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: winerice on September 11, 2017, 08:18:46 AM
They would give the stuck up look like it doesn't exist.
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: DuMa on September 11, 2017, 08:23:30 AM
They tend to show me their ring.

I'm like... What the bullchit.  That ring hella small. 
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: YAX on September 11, 2017, 09:55:38 AM
I think the ring thing could give some guys the wrong idea like... oh, so if you weren't married, I'd have a shot? lol.
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: winerice on September 11, 2017, 10:05:22 AM
Three responds from three guys only so i don't know what other women would think. I know my wife would give them guys the stuck up look when she gets hit.
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: YAX on September 11, 2017, 11:05:58 AM
perhaps getting hit on for women is like a test of their hotness.
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: DuMa on September 11, 2017, 12:40:24 PM
So to prevent this, the husband needs to hit on his wife often so she doesn't miss it. 

Or maybe if all she gets are hit on pick up lines like at hm n in public by strangers then she will become a pick up line whore.  She will crave for it.  Maybe best if we leave them as is so her virgin ears can detect another man's pick up line n will be distasteful about it. 

Trial n error till she no longer yours.  God made Eve the woman for man's enjoyment and his guinea pig to test out his theories.  If it is legal to have 10 wives, he will still only get one.  One is enough headache for him already he unless he's rich, here is a Benjamin, go buy yourself something at the mall n give me my free time. 
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: maipovci on September 11, 2017, 01:24:43 PM
by not responding.
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: YAX on September 11, 2017, 03:57:17 PM
by not responding.
I've seen some pretty agressive kdoo guys whom the girl tried to ignore.  That don't work with them. They'd be all like "What? so you won't talk to a brotha now? Why you be lie dat?"
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: DuMa on September 11, 2017, 05:00:30 PM
You know when they ask for my number n I'm not interested, I'd show them my ring.  Wait a minute, I don't have a ring on my finger but a cac ring. Ha
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: Believe_N_Me on September 12, 2017, 12:15:54 AM
I've seen some pretty agressive kdoo guys whom the girl tried to ignore.  That don't work with them. They'd be all like "What? so you won't talk to a brotha now? Why you be lie dat?"

Stop being a racist and tell your daughter to give the kay-doo guys a chance. We all know that you are talking about your own daughter. Who else would you be spying on in such close proximity?
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: Superan on September 12, 2017, 07:21:49 AM
So to prevent this, the husband needs to hit on his wife often so she doesn't miss it. 

Or maybe if all she gets are hit on pick up lines like at hm n in public by strangers then she will become a pick up line whore.  She will crave for it.  Maybe best if we leave them as is so her virgin ears can detect another man's pick up line n will be distasteful about it. 

Trial n error till she no longer yours.  God made Eve the woman for man's enjoyment and his guinea pig to test out his theories.  If it is legal to have 10 wives, he will still only get one.  One is enough headache for him already he unless he's rich, here is a Benjamin, go buy yourself something at the mall n give me my free time.


Woman married or not always like to be picked up. It doesn't mean they will sleep with the dude but it makes them feel attractive.
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: YAX on September 12, 2017, 11:10:15 AM

Woman married or not always like to be picked up. It doesn't mean they will sleep with the dude but it makes them feel attractive.
but when an ugly old man winks at a young hot chick she's like 'EWWW! Stop staring at me, PERV!'. 
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: Gucci K on September 12, 2017, 12:40:40 PM
i feel bad for Yax...he's always getting rejected by BNM!

with each rejection, she gives him pain, a cold shoulder, a stab in the heart, or a kick to the balls (see the low blow above  :D ;D).
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: DuMa on September 12, 2017, 12:45:21 PM
i feel bad for Yax...he's always getting rejected by BNM!

with each rejection, she brings gives him pain, a cold shoulder, a stab in the heart, or a kick to the balls (see the low blow above  :D ;D).

Amazing how they got dirt on one another to share with us nice folks.
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: YAX on September 12, 2017, 01:36:39 PM
Scary when someone you don't know anything about knows so much about you, right?  :o :o :( :( ??? ??? :( :-\
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: DuMa on September 12, 2017, 01:45:17 PM
Scary when someone you don't know anything about knows so much about you, right?  :o :o :( :( ??? ??? :( :-\

It might be your neighbors from next door.  Change your password so they can't steal your WiFi internet.
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: YAX on September 12, 2017, 03:42:16 PM
It might be your neighbors from next door.  Change your password so they can't steal your WiFi internet.
That would explain why, each time I moved, my neighbor moved to the house next door to me huh..  ;D
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: AppleBrook on September 14, 2017, 02:29:18 AM
You should be respectful and perhaps excited that they are still interested in hitting on you.  This is evident that you are still a beauty queen.  If I were you, you would neither do nor say anything out of disturbance in this notice.  Soon after the fact, you can kindly inform them that you are not available.  Any "genuine" gentleman would understand and reverence that.
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: tRouBLe on September 14, 2017, 06:22:28 AM
How do you respond?

I would tell them that I'm not available, that I already have a boyfriend or husband.

Woman married or not always like to be picked up. It doesn't mean they will sleep with the dude but it makes them feel attractive.

Not necessarily true about the "always like to be picked up."  It depends on the woman.   ;D
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: YAX on September 14, 2017, 08:50:32 AM
I would tell them that I'm not available, that I already have a boyfriend or husband.

  Doesn't that make it seem like if you were available you'd go for it?
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: Gucci K on September 14, 2017, 09:19:16 AM
  Doesn't that make it seem like if you were available you'd go for it?
yes it does!  it only means her boyfriend is presently there and she doesn't want any TrouBle!

had she said, 'sorry, i'm not interested...b ah blah blah!'  we'd get the hint!  :D ;D
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: YAX on September 14, 2017, 10:00:23 AM
yes it does!  it only means her boyfriend is presently there and she doesn't want any TrouBle!

had she said, 'sorry, i'm not interested...b ah blah blah!'  we'd get the hint!  :D ;D
So go befriend her and wait for the day they break up. lol.  You can help speed up the process too by being that guy friend she shares her problems with and pretend to be all sympathetic all the while keep telling her "Oh... you deserve so much better", "You deserve so much more", "You don't deserve that", "You should really dump him, he doesn't deserve you".   >:D
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: Gucci K on September 14, 2017, 10:10:04 AM
So go befriend her and wait for the day they break up. lol.  You can help speed up the process too by being that guy friend she shares her problems with and pretend to be all sympathetic all the while keep telling her "Oh... you deserve so much better", "You deserve so much more", "You don't deserve that", "You should really dump him, he doesn't deserve you".   >:D
yep...she would be worth getting into Trouble with!
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: YAX on September 14, 2017, 12:02:32 PM
Keep hinting at it bro.  I think she's starting to come around.  O0
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: Reporter on September 14, 2017, 12:34:00 PM
Years ago in my 20s, two guys and I were at a party. A decent Hmong girl was sitting alone as her friends were up dancing with guys.

We decided to ask her for a dance--yeah, to hit on her.

So, I was the one to ask her for a friend of mine.

"No, I don't want to dance," she said. "I'm here to dance."

Embarrassed, I told the guys that next time they had to pay me to help them out like that. lol
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: lexicon on September 14, 2017, 12:44:27 PM
If anything I would like to believe the reaction would be the same regardless of whether you're a man or a woman or if you're in a relationship or otherwise. Respectfully inform them of your interest or lack thereof and move on from there.
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: Believe_N_Me on September 15, 2017, 03:04:21 AM
YAX,

Leave them 15-year-old Hmong-Lao girls alone. They told me that they don't appreciate your kwv txhiaj because it creeps them out.  :2funny:
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: YAX on September 15, 2017, 10:31:51 AM
She's even asking other people about me.  ***SHRIEKS**
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: YAX on September 22, 2017, 02:05:58 PM
Perhaps a woman's negative response to an old man hitting on her or an ugly guy hitting on her isn't really because they think the guy's perverted after all. Hmm.. maybe it's really just a reaction to how upset she feels that only ugly guys or ogs will hit on her.  She's probably pissed off at herself for not being able to attract better looking guys so she lashes out at them in response.  :2funny: :2funny:
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: Magic Mike on September 27, 2017, 03:22:42 AM
A married woman would leave the bar with a hot man. It's called one night stands. That's an opportunity no woman could refuse.
Title: Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
Post by: Believe_N_Me on October 19, 2017, 03:55:46 AM
She's even asking other people about me.  ***SHRIEKS**

Who is asking about you? They are reporting your creepiness.