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Hmong Culture & History / Vauvs and nyabs are not servants..

« on: February 04, 2022, 11:04:15 PM »

It's not that I don't want to help out my inlaws, but man, I get so damn tired of doing almost everything for them. It's like whenever I pay them a visit, they have a list of errands (hours) for me to do for them. they have sons and daughters at home who can do some at least. And it's not like my inlaws are disabled. They are still healthy and able to do things, but why do I have to be their servant?  They were doing just fine before I became their vauv.

so annoying. It's like I don't have a life or something. I simply refused to go visit them unless a special occasion comes up.

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General Discussion / Man, it's hard to click with people with no common interests...

« on: February 04, 2022, 10:58:52 PM »

Wife thinks I am a hater because I refused to hang out with her bros and bro-in-laws. Tried it a few times and all they did was drank till they're drunk. It's like drinking is a hobby for them or something. Her bros and bro in laws most likely think I am a hater too since I almost never accept their invites to hang out.

anyone having this issue?