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General Category => Hmong Culture & History => Wedding Rituals & Customs => Topic started by: gold_spilo on October 08, 2013, 10:07:16 AM

Title: 'how to' asking mej koob before and thanking mej koom after .a wedding
Post by: gold_spilo on October 08, 2013, 10:07:16 AM
The negotiation night before the bride and groom comes over there's usually dinner and you would ask the two mej kooj  to be mej kooj even though they already know but just so you can bow to them.what do you say? Also after the wedding what do you say when you 'tiam mej koob'.. please help..I would like both simple or complex ways..thanks.i n hmong please >:D >:D
Title: Re: 'how to' asking mej koob before and thanking mej koom after .a wedding
Post by: Risingstars on December 10, 2013, 08:42:51 AM
Here koj saib diam no xwb ces koj yeeb paub lawm mam.  O0

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2L3Jy7w838k# (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2L3Jy7w838k#)
Title: Re: 'how to' asking mej koob before and thanking mej koom after .a wedding
Post by: Fancee on April 15, 2014, 11:14:25 AM
Wow, Risingstars!
Thanks for the Youtube link!!!!

Really helpful!
Title: Re: 'how to' asking mej koob before and thanking mej koom after .a wedding
Post by: Risingstars on April 15, 2014, 11:42:26 AM
Quote from: Fancee on April 15, 2014, 11:14:25 AM
Wow, Risingstars!
Thanks for the Youtube link!!!!

Really helpful!

Hey no problem I'd thought it was a good learning experience. I went through the whole process already so I know a little bit about the wedding process. Like it really comes down to what Bee Vang said in the video, you need to go out and help your relatives so you can gain the respect and the reputation. By helping relatives out you can ask them to help you out when you get marry.
Title: Re: 'how to' asking mej koob before and thanking mej koom after .a wedding
Post by: Risingstars on April 15, 2014, 11:43:51 AM
Here is the actual roles for each hierarchy system.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gTGVv7QiJRI# (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gTGVv7QiJRI#)
Title: Re: 'how to' asking mej koob before and thanking mej koom after .a wedding
Post by: Risingstars on July 14, 2014, 01:42:18 PM
This one is new, I like this one.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RtsVsZuQJe8#ws (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RtsVsZuQJe8#ws)