Maybe give up on finding love and just have friends? I mean,obviously, I'm not an expert since I'm not in this situation, but I was just thinking, if you've been with that many people and have not found one compatible with you, maybe its time to just focus on other things in life and have casual sex whenever you're horney. I'm thinking, by 40, you're so set in your ways anyway that finding someone else who can tolerate your habits and whom you can tolerate would be so difficult that its not worth the time or effort.
That's not to say, if you're around 40 and just got divorced, you should quit looking. I mean, if you've been with someone for that last 15-20 years and now in the market, okay, maybe you got a shot. I'm just talking about guys and girls who's maybe been divorced a couple of times or dated numerous people and have been on the market for several years, but can't put up with anyone long term. Anyone who's in this situation want to chime in on why you're still looking or why you've stopped looking? Maybe you can give me some insights on why you can't be with someone long term? Like, do you just get bored of the other person after a while?
I do agree after you hit 40, "life is like a box of chocolate"...you'll never know what you're gonna eat and quite frankly, all tastes the same (
SWEET! single, divorced, widowed and even married chicks)...so there is no point in figuring out what you want, just take what you can get. it's midlife crisis at its best...all you need to do is focus on yourself, make that money so you can continue courting them chocolates. drive a fancier car, attracting easier prey. traveling at ease, fly to sacramento for a weekend fling, start a fight in merced then hit up fresno for a gangbang. when new year comes, one can be at any city in the world (lav52), for them rental girlfriends or trophy wives...and best of all, no one to hold you back.
single life at 40+ is better than when you're 20...all games you know how to play, all women you know how to get, and sex is no longer a priority. life is no longer about
experimenting, where you're trying to figure out what to do to better yourself but
experiencing, doing things what you feel like and enjoying the freedom.