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Good for you.  In my life experience people only want what they don't have.  The rich want a happy family, the poor want to be rich, etc. 

I've have bought so many things in my life from NEW cars, tv, phones, bike, boat, etc and the truth is none of them really satisfied me.  The hype only last a few months, then I wanted new things again.  The only thing that really satisfied me was spending time with my wife, kids and family, making those memories, you know.  I'm not rich by all means, but I can afford most things people want from new cars to whatever. IMHO, I think you have to have a balance of things.  Too much money but no family is not it, great family but no money not it either, etc. I know people who have money and are single and they say loneliness is a struggle.  I know good family who says they living on paycheck to paycheck. 

Whatever it is, I believe if you have a balance of family, money, love, fun, etc. then you are in good hands.   

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General Discussion / Re: I'm ashamed to be China looking man.....
« on: March 27, 2018, 09:31:36 AM »
The first time I ever encounter this in my life was at the Mall of America in Bloomington MN back sometime around 2004 or 2005.  My wife and I went to the mall and found a car just about the back out from a spot, so we stop and signal claiming that spot as ours once the person leaves.  Then all of a sudden a car came and stop on the opposite side facing us with no signal on and then a middle eastern guy got out from the passenger side and make his way to the spot we were claiming as ours.  So as the parked car pulled away from the spot the middle eastern guy walk and stand right on the spot claiming he got the spot.  My wife was furious and start cussing and complaining loudly to me and I said, its not worth getting shot over a parking spot and I drove off. 

Since that incident, I've encounter two more of the same incident in my time around the Twin Cities of the same color middle eastern people.  I think this kind of things started with people of Middle East origin, because in their country, its normal to do this, they brought the practice over to the US and all the idiots of all colors catches on uses and abuse it.   

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General Discussion / Re: Life is Great
« on: February 28, 2018, 07:32:09 PM »
LOL, I only listed the good stuff that really matters to me in the end. You know, the things I'm proud of. Trust me, I did a lot of F-up sh1t when I was younger and I'm not proud to list them.  We are all humans you know and no one ain't perfect.  Just enjoy life guys...... O0 

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General Discussion / Life is Great
« on: February 26, 2018, 02:29:58 PM »
List or care to share some of the things in your life that makes you feel like LIFE IS GREAT SO FAR.

Mine are:

1.  Married to the same women all my life and did everything with her THE FIRST TIME together, like first time in Disney World, Las Vegas, Mt. Rushmore, see lunar eclipse, sleep under the stars, wrote and sing a song for her, have children with her, etc.

2.  All my children have college degree, all never saw Juvi and all are financially stable.

3.  I was able to retire financially stable.

4.  I don’t drink, don’t do drugs, don’t gamble, not abusive and still very faithful the one and only women in my life.  I guess that’s why she's still with me today lol. 

Enjoy life guys, time is so precious, be appreciated of what you have and a loving family is so important.



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General Discussion / Re: Finally, someone admitting the truth about Wealth.
« on: February 20, 2018, 10:24:01 AM »
I think it varies among people. Every study is different due to many different criteria just like a home inspection, two inspector will have two different results on the same home.  I know people with money and people without money and they both have many regrets. IMO, money never really buy true happiness instead it buys you luxuries.  You will never be happy because the more one has the more one wants and money can only buy things to certain point.  Being rich create insecurity. If you are rich base on a salary working for someone you will be working all the time and will miss out on a lot of things in life.  Rich people are still human and still feel sadness, pain, etc. so instead of feeling some of the struggles poor people have, they inherit other struggles that comes with having money.  For example like having a car.  Insurance, car tab, maintenance comes with it.  Having money is the same, certain things comes with it, its part of it and you can’t shake it, you can’t have one without the other.

Look at Hollywood today, there are millionaire everywhere and some of their struggles are never ending.  My manager at my last job who make twice as much always complaining that he’s broke and drive the crappiest car out of the rest and I’m trying to get to where he is? No thank you I’m more happier making less, less headache, less responsibility and its enough for the family.  When the last time you got a raise and you celebrate then months later you feel the same like you still can’t save money and you need another raise. The more one has the more one wants and always feeling insecure, the list goes on…Millionaires no different.

I believe happiness is having enough money “txaus noj, txaus haus”.  MOST importantly having a loving family, spouse, children, etc.  IMO, the real TRUE Happiness is how you share yourself to the world.  On your dying bed nothing matters, not money, not how big your house is, not how many places you’ve been to, etc, INSTEAD a self-evaluation of your walks of life and how righteous you were to the world, THE FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF, you know.  This will determine your true happiness before your last breath.

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To be successful with school/colleges and professional careers you have to have commitment.  I know a few people who got their BA/BS, Master, PhD just from never giving up and commit.  They are not even the smartest people I know but they kept plucking away and after so many years they got it.  I also know many smart people who don't have commitment and they never finish college.  On top of having commitment your career or degree has to be a career that will pay well for example like medical doctors, pharmacist, Anesthesiologi st, etc.

In my experience most success people with professional careers are MOSTLY those who has a family, they got married have kids, struggle real life, went back to school and finish a degree in a career that pays well because they lived the struggle life already and don't like it.

If you have commitment you will get somewhere eventually in time.  You can be a smart person but if you are to lazy to get up and do anything, you will fail.  Apply commitment to most things you do and you will get somewhere.  For example like starting a new sport that you have no clue about, keep practicing, learning and plucking away, commit to it and in time you will be good at it.  However, commitment is like going on a diet.  Only a few will have the will to commit and lose weight, the majority will cheat and fail.  So yeah commitment is hard, it's very HARD.

Then again, just because you commit and in 10+ years you become a medical doctor and making good money that doesn't mean you are well-rounded and smart.  It only means you learn a skill and had a job, you still need a lawyers to help when it comes to law issues and you still need a auto mechanic when it comes to fixing your car.  That's why it always get me dumb-founded when I see Hmong people interviewing a Hmong doctor/official etc. and hyping him/her up like they are the smartest person.  They are only good at that because they did it all their life AND some of them are not even smart at it they just commit to get the degree or job.  Talk about fixing a computer and they just pause like WHAT?  Anyways life goes on......     

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General Discussion / Re: tgif... things that you're excited for...
« on: February 16, 2018, 11:37:33 AM »
TBH, sex and traveling this weekend.  At retirement still doing my thang. Guys you wanna keep your relationship happy, GOOD sex is an important ingredient. O0 

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financial plan to paid off all my debt by summer time except the house, just invest in bitcoin crypto currency, buying some more dividend stocks, 2018 looking good. 

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I keep saying soon Hmong people will view Hmong people as just another Asian person.  I mean its already started and going strong.  All my grand children don't even speak Hmong.  Lose the language you pretty much have no interest, ties, common ground with the culture.  It happens to the Chinese, Filipino and other Asian groups here in America, Hmong is no different. 

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Sad when someone thought it thru and traded you and the kids for another D/Pusssy.  Time to leave IMO.  Anyways.......

Did she resigned, bc if she was a he, fingers would be pointing to resigned. Double standard violation at its best IMO. 

Mr, Forrest claim, "At no time did I ever violate my oath as a police office or engage in actions that would abuse the public trust."  REALLY, so you abuse your wife's trust and the public suppose to still trust you and that you never abuse the public trust.  I guess there are still some stupid public people who will still back you up on this for what ever reason so......oh well lol.  I guess that's why most cheater still cheats, just a matter of time bc there's a lot of idiots that will still back you up lmao.

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Good sleep is important.  When I get on a good sleep routine sleep paralysis stops.  Now I usually get it once every 4 to 6 months only.  When I do get them, I don't feel the "evil presents" anymore, just can't move.  I was baptized a Christian as a child but I stop going to church for over 10+ years now and not a Shamanism either.  I believe in God the creator, but not in religion.     

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Man those canes sure looks good.  I'm gonna eat a lot of them when I go to Cali this Dec for the Hmong New Year, can't wait. O0

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Music Discussion / what
« on: July 30, 2017, 08:21:04 PM »
man its dead in here

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Hmong News / Re: Victim of brutal beating in Fern Rock speaks out
« on: July 23, 2016, 11:54:33 AM »
Don't know why you all are so surprised.  Animals will act and be like animals.  You get chase by some dogs and one dog walking by and you expect that dog to help you out....WAKE UP.  I live with Black people before and most of them are like Animals "Tsiaj".  Talking to them is like talking to an animal.  Nothing new here if you know blacks like I do this is normal activities lol. 

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