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Marriage & Family Life / Re: What's up with these spouse killings?

« on: November 05, 2019, 11:18:00 AM »

There's two side to the story. Until the story unfold, I ain't taking side.

Secondly, most our parents/grandparents are were probably married arranged, bridenap, forced, met for a week and then got married, etc and most of them still live to 120 years old together.  MOST couples today who CONFIDENTLY CLAIMED that the Western practice, co habitation, living together for years before marriage, dating for years before marriage is best......late r see themselves running to divorce court faster than anything else.  Funny thing is, running lightening fast to divorce court is also a Western practice, go figure.  The court should be saying, "you two idiots need to make this work for the kids sake, for your sake, etc", but NOPE!  Instead, it's sign right here and go pay the FEE because that money will go toward fixing the pot holes in the streets, lol.

It really just boils down to the two individual having a FULL UNDERSTANDING (many factor to list here) of what a true marriage really is with equal participation/work/labor from both person. 

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: David Yang

« on: October 24, 2019, 11:40:15 PM »

I can see a lot of some of you would have no problem or even think twice for banging your HOT brother wife, your sister, step mom, friends mom, whatever the case, etc when opportunity surface.  When your D call, you roll and the excuses would just flow out the mouth like no tomorrow.  The way some of you think is troubling and disturbing.  Like I said, just by listening to people, you can pretty much question, "what else goes on at the home". Also, makes me wonder how some of you were raised.  I know every Hmong kids were told not to date same last name Hmong by their parents/uncles/grandparents at some point.  I do understand that we all can do anything, it's called free will, HOWEVER there's is consequences and repercussions. I get it that there's always a reason to bang your sister, stepmom, rape your own child or hit your mom.......but YOU JUST DON'T DO IT.  Just like there's a million reasons why you can date same last name Hmong girl.......YOU JUST DON'T DO IT.  It's in your essence to know this by nature and it was taught to you by your parents.  If you were raised right, you know where the line is drawn in all the shady things you encounter in life, from stealing, boozing, killing, raping, etc.  The ultimate worst is it didn't even cross his mind to have respect for her, her parents, himself and his parents.  Dude just another horny guy who took advantage of an opportunity that he will never admit to and then flourish the community with excuses to make him look half decent.  Truth is, you minus the vagina and he be running the other way quicker Usain Bolt.  Sad thing is cov neeg wise/smart can see right thru a con artist and the scheme.  Another sad thing is, everyone wake up eventually after puberty.  When the repercussion affects his children in the future, he will wake up to deal with it again. The sh1t we deal with is the result of the choices we make, the repercussion, the consequences.

There is free will and a million reasons, but it's in your ESSENCE to know that there are somethings you just don't do PERIOD.

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: David Yang

« on: October 24, 2019, 02:19:02 AM »

theking

You claim he has common sense.  Where is the common sense to do his research thoroughly, family tree, genetics (like you said), talk around communities about her family roots, etc?  A respectful wise man would cover all his bases right?  A man who truly love his girl would do things thoroughly (family tree, genetic, etc) to protect her and the relationship and stop the bashing.  Exactly it’s too much work and not important. Seems like you over estimated his common sense qualification. Like I said, these people who claim to have fallen in love with the same last name Hmong girl don’t give two cents crap about doing any research completely because it will defeat the purpose of tapping dat azz to begin with especially if the results don’t come back in your liking.  On top of that, a person who does this kind of thing without any dignity and/or stop to think about the repercussions has a disturbing mindset don’t matter how you look at it because that would make a stepmom, stepsister, step-whatever at high risk. Which lead to my conclusion again and again, “I wonder what else goes on behind closed doors” those that think like this.

He better make sure this relationship work out because it would be hard to find a decent good level headed Hmong girl who probably would say, “aren’t you that singer who dated your own same last name”, follow with, “sorry my parents and clan can’t accept that”.  Again, a dumb azz NO COMMON SENSE move to date same last name.  The repercussion KILLED IT.  Don't worry too much tho, although guys who does this might blow their future chances with most level headed Hmong girls, there's still ton of idiots/hoes flooded everywhere.  Since doing a thorough research is not important because the D craving is priority, all hope is not lost yet.  I'm sure they can still end up with winners who had 10+ bf but never married once.  Shhh.......we called these hoes in my time lol.   

Anyways, don’t be the person who travels to another state/country met a hot same last name Hmong girl and bang the lights out of that person thinking it’s okay for “two non related strangers” to make out especially in another far away place.  Later to find out she was your dad’s brother daughter from another state that you didn’t know about.  Like many cases of Hmong dating same last name Hmong, it really has nothing to do with anything but simply the LACK of COMMON SENSE for not doing a thorough research first and being horny af when the opportunity present itself.

Here’s the truth, when someone tells me they are dating the same last name Hmong girl, it automatically tells me that person was in it for the wrong reasons.  Everything else is just another excuse to keep banging her because at the moment the banging is so good.  NONE and I mean NONE of these people give a crap to do any research because nobody wants a REASON to stop tapping that azz.  I see right thru the BS excuses. I use to know someone, who later confessed, it's the banging that got him hooked so the excuses start flying out his mouth.  Years later after the drama and confession he even agree that people who do this is doing it for the wrong reason.  Funny thing was, I wasn't surprise because people who does shady/on the grey area/bad things will always be in denial at the moment and will find excuses to keep hacking away.

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Marriage & Family Life / Re: David Yang

« on: October 23, 2019, 01:48:30 AM »

Here is my two cent

David is too immature to fully understand what he is doing OR he is straight out a dumb azz.  Here is why?

1. We were all young once and when we grow older, wiser and understand life as a whole better, we realized some of the choices we make in life were beyond retard.  This is one of them.

2. David have no clue if he is related by blood to this same last name girl or not. He has no access to ALL the Yang family tree and therefore making his judgement based on what is practice freely in America/Western culture.  Failing to clearly see that Western ways don’t always apply to Hmong ways.  He’s in love and that’s how he going to roll, sister or not (scary based on how a person thinks naively).  TBH, none of these Hmong peeps who's dating same last name even do any research.  When what's between your legs starts to itch, you just roll and spit out the excuses so your needs can be met.  That's the honest truth. 

3. Being a well known Hmong person and making bad choices will hurt your reputation in the community.  When you do things like this you put yourself in a grey area and you know people will talk bad about you, its given based on the choices you make.  Not a wise person IMO, still too stupid if you ask me.  Just like when Tee Vang (the singer) posted on social media of him poaching fishes and then he deleted all the pictures after someone flagged him for being so dumb. 

4. So one day if David and her decide to call it quits, it will only prove that he wasn't so clear of what he was doing chasing a love he was not even certain about.  If I was a Hmong girl (the level headed ones of course), they should be worrying about him trying to date them after this relationship falls apart knowing it's been blasted all over social media like this.  His choices would make most mature level headed Hmong women feel disturbing about him.
 
5. If he’s gone so far as dating the same last name and showing it off on social media without doing his research completely makes me wonder?  What kind of a person he really is?  What does he think of other girls of the same last name when he is around them? If this doesn't bother him, what else happens behind closed doors at home? The respect level of brother, sister, mother, father, uncle, etc. has no meaning and values to him.  As a Hmong person in general, do you trust him around your sister, gf, mom, aunt, etc. because obviously there is no barriers and respect based on his mindset. 

Okay, the list goes on but I think I pretty much got this thread locked and deleted lol. When the truth is told, it is too much and be viewed as hate, I get it.  That’s why they call it THE UGLY TRUTH.           

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General Discussion / Re: It's been 8 years and still no real Hmong leader in the eyes of the majority??

« on: August 19, 2019, 06:44:45 PM »

Bruh, Hmong hlub Hmong no longer exist, therefore there will never be a another Hmong leader like GVP.  In reality nowadays, you are just another Asian to me.  You see this practice all over America with young Hmong people and they are our future like it or not.  As half Hmong Millennials today can't even speak or write Hmong.  Language is culture.  It's happening now and as the Hmong language dies to a low minimum many years from now its going to be even near impossible to have a Hmong leader when more than half the Hmong people don't even know their own roots and culture.  Sad but going forward for Hmong Americans from now on and forever is the President of the United States.  Look at all these Hmong Senators, Representative and etc.....young Hmong people simply don't care.  TBH, there is too much trouble when Hmong rule anyways, this is facts dating back to old Chinese and Hmong history.  It will never happen IMO.  Hmong where meant to be rule by others because they can't rule peacefully under themselves.  It's a burden from way way back, a curse from a Hmong King.     

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General Discussion / Re: Allknighters - A new Hmong boy band

« on: July 11, 2019, 06:58:36 AM »

Here my 2 cent,

Not bad for a first song from a group of teens.  Although not the best but it's better than most other artist out there who has been playing music for a while.  Good melody, good lyrics, good vibes, good choice of music genres (too many thailand style music), etc.

IMO:: 

-My wife and I have no problem understanding the song.  The fact that they are teens and they can sing in Hmong already blew the competition.  You got adult artist out there who can’t even speak or write in their own native tongue and language. 

-You don’t see a lot of Hmong teens nowadays especially boys doing positive things and setting goals, so this is a major plus just for having the motivation to create music for the community.  As all musician knows, it takes a lot of time, passion, commitment and hard work.  Go ask any artist?

-Autotune:  Don’t bother me, as artist like Taylor Swift, Selena Gomez, Cher, Rhianna, Kanye, Ariana Grande, P. Malone and some other big names, etc uses it also.  It’s a tool, it's a technique, it's a style, by all means use it if you can do it.  It’s like putting reverb and EQ on the vocal track.  You either like the autotune or you don’t.
   
-I think there is still room for improvements but so far as a debut, it's pretty above average amongst the rest in style, looks, directions, music genres, etc. What really set them apart with no competition is that they are a boy band (can’t think of another Hmong boy band that currently exist right now), young and got their own cool.
 
-All and all, let's put it this way, when you got a bunch of teens who is younger and cuter doing good music, as a artist you automatically know the pressure is on and you would be a fool to think otherwise because you ain’t getting any younger.  TBH, Looks and beauty alone could kill the competition and steal the show in some cases. 

Final thoughts: looks like they are managed by KLS.  KLS is legend in many ways.  I think they will do really good if they keep producing.  The end credits states Allknighters produce too, I can’t even think of any Hmong teenagers that produce.  TBH, any Hmong American group and band that still sing in Hmong nowadays have my respect.  They understand the importance of Hmong language and culture. What I'm waiting for is, what is their next song going to be like?  You gotta wonder right?   

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General Discussion / Re: It is NOT Looking Good for the Hmong in terms of IQ

« on: April 20, 2019, 12:03:29 PM »

Majority of Hmong Americans kids.....kids who were born here in America, they are not even motivated to excel in life. There is so much resources out there today and most of these future Hmong kids rather hang out, drink, play sports (wanna be pro), free load on their parents, waste days and hours playing games, etc.   It has nothing to do with intelligence, IQ, smartness, etc. 

Even when you tell them that there is a free job and all you have to do is just show up and they will hire you on the spot no questions ask OR look free education..... all you gonna get is CRICKETS, you know what I mean, lol.   

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General Discussion / Re: Yang for PRESIDENT!!!!

« on: April 15, 2019, 02:39:24 PM »

Those of you who want to know more about Andrew, here is your chance to learn more about Andrew Yang. 

www.noodlesonline.net

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General Discussion / Re: Yang for PRESIDENT!!!!

« on: April 10, 2019, 01:34:23 PM »

Let me just put this this way......Once Upon A Time......I once run as second hand in my clan, I run a Hmong organization to help Hmong, I was also a part of a "Make a Change" at my job a team design to make changes for the good of the work place, I was a martial arts instructor for a martial art club in the Twin Cities. I have my share of joining committees, organization, groups, event org, concert org, etc. from various position to leader role.  I'm sure some of you haven't even been in a leadership role running a organized group with Hmong and American mixed.  The politics being played in most organization ESPECIALLY in a higher role is beyond words.  Look at your work place right now and the politics around it from hiring to anything and this is just the little BS stuff.  The government level is 10x worst in politics.  You either know how to play the game/role or you lose.

My point is, for the Naive people out there......Eve n a KING can't change certain things.  A good KING will understand that every change have its flaws.  Now apply this simple principal to a Democracy country like America......b asically, what it means is you can't pull the trigger by yourself because there are laws, constitution, rules, regulations, etc. that will prevent you from doing it to the full extent of your ABILITY.  Therefore what is left is........you just doing a job that pays the bill. 

However, I like how some of you think tho......that "If he get in office he's going the change the world OR If I get in office I'm going to start pushing these button and watch things change".  Good luck because you will be disappointed of yourself and come to realize what you can and cannot do real quick.

This Yang guy ain't gonna do jack.  He's a great persuader, talker, speaker, etc and when he get in office he just gonna ride the JOB train and retired, nothing more.  Some of you think you can make a big change, some of you can't even change your gf/wife mind about not to buy her a diamond ring, etc lol. 

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General Discussion / Re: Yang for PRESIDENT!!!!

« on: April 09, 2019, 11:53:06 AM »

i'm curious to know why you're not exercising your right to vote?  with having first hand experience, you should know the importance of voting and the difference it makes.  granted  you have doubts in your candidacy's ability to fulfill his agenda but at least your beliefs are somewhat aligned.  if your candidate win, you will ultimately gain some favors, if not all.   

Andrew Yang is a smart guy...he's buying votes with the government's money and offering free healthcare.  his promises are exactly what the minorities want to hear and he knows that minorities are the majority if all voted for him.

I just don't vote because most politicians are just playing a role in a movie.  Its like voting for Ethan Hunt and not Tom Cruise.  You voting for a character who plays a great role.  Second, anybody can talk a great talk, I know some in my lifetime but truth is they can't even fix their own problems.  When you see too many people who are great talkers, you can see signs and see right thru some of them and the role they play.  Example:  when yous fish enough you start to identified every fish you catch.  Just IMO.

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General Discussion / Re: Yang for PRESIDENT!!!!

« on: April 09, 2019, 09:41:09 AM »

I use to help run campaign for a very popular Hmong candidate in MN and we won.  Here's the deal people, most political candidates are full of it.  It's part of the game to speak something so good to win votes, but knowing you don't have the power to execute it by yourself even if your life depends on it. 

I know the game, I'm part of a campaign, this Yang guy is just another political person playing the political game.  Chances are, he's just another sell-out. 

That's why I never vote in my entire life for any PRESIDENT.

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General Discussion / Re: Pho restaurant Owner resigned after using the N-word

« on: March 21, 2019, 02:31:32 PM »

The N word is a universal word IMO.  Asians and other ethnics use it all the time with their hommies.  Thanks to the Blacks, the N word have meaning today. 

Truth is the Black are to be blame for keeping this word alive after all these decades.  Blacks give it life, power, meaning, pain, etc. 

Here the most backward kicker: 

White people created the N word to label Blacks as below dirt and less than human.  Amazingly, the White racist was able to embedded, hypnotized and crippled the Black people to keep preaching their created branding making it strongly vivid and well today.  Black people are so in a trance, captive, memorize and control by this racist word that they are so backward retarded and continue to identify themselves as such with self respect and pride everytime they say it.  The N word have become a part of the Black people lifestyle, culture and language daily and they have embrace this word to the fullest as their own and because they are the only one who can say it, they continue to give it meaning and long live the word as they thrive on exhorting it.  As other ethnic groups have abandon and stop preaching racist word that humiliate, degrade, suppress and shame their kind, Blacks were able to keep their branding, the N word alive and viral.  Conclusion is when you have implanted a virus, computer chip or in this case a word inside the mind of a certain group, class, ethnic, tribal, etc and after many centuries they are still being revive by it, the result is priceless.  You have achieve the impossible and therefore is the most genius of all.  Don’t hate me, hate the truth. 

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General Discussion / Re: Stopped by Main st. Cupertino for the first time and Somi Somi was packed

« on: February 21, 2019, 01:21:43 PM »

Can’t even make a honest respond (neutral or not) to theking without getting stealth deleted by a favor mod, so I’ll go with……


"Sharing is caring".....at this moment this background song was play where I'm at right now, thought I write it

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General Discussion / Re: Woman almost got Apple jacked, good thing the Valet was there

« on: February 21, 2019, 01:18:08 PM »

Can’t even make a honest respond (neutral or not) to theking without getting stealth deleted by a favor mod, so I’ll go with……


LA, love to go there again

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General Discussion / Re: You won and you're still that cheap, it's borderline fraud and what a Kooooch!

« on: February 21, 2019, 01:15:21 PM »

Can’t even make a honest respond (neutral or not) to theking without getting stealth deleted by a favor mod, so I’ll go with……


gotta start watching the PGA