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General Category => Hmong Culture & History => Wedding Rituals & Customs => Topic started by: 2LY on June 24, 2012, 08:27:21 AM

Title: What to say when asking someone to be...
Post by: 2LY on June 24, 2012, 08:27:21 AM
a "phib laj"?
Title: Re: What to say when asking someone to be...
Post by: GoldFishFighting on June 25, 2012, 08:37:14 PM
to the point...usuall y u ask someone close..like a cousin or good friend thus they can't waite to be ask already n they know what's up...thus just get to the point...I'm here to ask you to be phij laj for.. and then bow...twice...

if he refuse..ask someone else...same thing...usuall y they don't refuse..
Title: Re: What to say when asking someone to be...
Post by: NceegVaj on August 03, 2012, 09:05:28 AM
to the point...usuall y u ask someone close..like a cousin or good friend thus they can't waite to be ask already n they know what's up...thus just get to the point...I'm here to ask you to be phij laj for.. and then bow...twice...

if he refuse..ask someone else...same thing...usuall y they don't refuse..


....then you say....I will remember your bows....as the cows come home, when you see a good girl stretch your hand, when you see a good wife, stretch your eyes....I will return your favorl........ ........... :2funny: