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Lets talk about them sugar babies first. 

Imagine your daughter comes up to you and say... .Hey daddy, I'm getting payed by this guy and I'm giving him some emotional support and if the money is right, I'll have to have sex with him too.  He's older, has a wife and kids or he can be like your boy G, not married, no kids and I'm milking his easy money about half of his paycheck.

Know any daughter would go to their dad and be saying that chit?   :2funny:

Now lets talk about them sugar daddy. 

IF he's older, with his own wife and kids but he is still lacking that emotional support and sex from his wife, he may reach out to a sugarbaby to fill in such void.  Poor wife got cheated upon.  You think this is ok? 

Now your boy G's turn.  He's like a chump guy who wants a hot hollywood dime and can't get it so he can either go the incel route by hating all beautiful women or worse yet, get a gun and go shoot them all with murder suicide case.  He can pay the sugar baby industry to fill in his void as well. 

Notice something here.  I remembered our boy G made his first posting about how he got a hot date with a dime.  Now no where in such posting he said he got her through the sugar dating website.  Why?  I'll tell you why.  It is the true fact that he knows what he is doing is not universal sound or accepting.   There is a stigma that is ugly about it just like a guy who goes and pay for sex, that such guy will never be proud to accept the feat of paying for sex unless he's a loser and he doesn't care. 

There are a lot of layers to these bad stigmatize fascist if you want to see it that way.  I'll name a few and some, we are guilty of it.  The world is slowly accepting it but some may never. 

1.  Paying for sex, escorts , prostitution (sex only)
   Sub layer would be the Sugar baby/sugar daddy route.  (emotion involved and sex)
  Sex club
Strip club

2.  Having internet friends or finding a gf on the internet or social media sites or apps.  I'm a loser because I have no real friends so I make friends online.  Other people say how you guys met and how am I suppose to answer to this? 

3.  Marry an oversea wife.  No one I know that is proud to say that they went oversea and go ta wife there.  Most if all will try to fake the funk by not bringing it up and pass her as a local grown wife that I married.

4.  May not apply to you guys but if I marry hmong.  I'll be proud to marry her but knowing what my people will say, I don't know how to explain it to them.  If you see me saying that she's thailand or from laos, you know the stigma that still bothers me. 

Many More but you know the Stigma is there. 

When you think of a sugar daddy, you think of these older men with big money and who also has a wife and kids and because of his loyalty to the family, he can not leave them.  Typically, when his wife does not give him the emotional support or sex, he turns to payed services. 

Now we all know the end game to this type of relationship because we know that it will not last forever.  He will go back to his wife and kids and she will move on with her life, possible getting another daddy to pay for her bills. 

Then you have guys like your boy G there, single, never been married, no kids, got some money to blow and too ugly to get himself anything hotter than decent.   

Now we also know the end game to this type of relationship because we too know that hardly anyone marries their payed hooze   :2funny:

Now with a traditional relationship, the end game is that there is a good chance that the two will end up marrying one another.  Carrying a status like your boy G there and being a sugar daddy may have bad consequences.  Once the relationship is over, he would be wasting his time and reverts back to square one since it is already established that his relationship has a less than 1% chance that he'll marry his sugar babies.  So this is how he is going to get fawked.  Time investment, money invested just to resorts back to square one.  At least the older guy with money still has his wife and kids to resort back to. 

I called it emotional damage because that is what it is.  Them babies are pro at their trade.  They call you often, fake the funk, become the best actress and the poor guy thinks that it is some kind of a different type of love and he can up his chance of marrying her.  Boy, such delusional   :2funny:

The Single & Dating Scenes / Funny azz Sugarbaby (man) story....
« on: September 17, 2022, 11:38:48 AM »
How can you not laugh at this?   :2funny:

Have you ever fawk with someone you didn’t like? performed sex acts you didn’t liked? Dealing with old men should be easier since three pumps and they done then dealing with older women. at first it thought it would be just entertaining the sugar mommy. So I got a match she wanted me to join her to some play I love theater so I was like sure she wasn’t my type I was 21 at the time miss was in her 50ies. I didn’t knew she wanted me to perform on her. So I sat through the play which was mildly enjoyable then she invited me to dinner and I was thinking while ordering my food ow this is easy money. I probably get paid after eating I can go home and chill. Little did I know what was going to happen next. I had been very polite and courteous makes a few jokes I know it isn’t polite to talk about money so I tried to avoid that. So after the last course I was like well I’m going home it was lovely meeting you it was a wonderful night thanks a lot. She was like well you’re not done mister. I was like eh? The whole date thing was a test she wanted to see if I was worthy to enter her. I just wanted to get paid and get lost at that moment. I wouldn’t get paid if I didn’t sleep with her can you imagine how angry I was. Nice young man of 21 with a women old enough to be my mum overweight and I wasn’t really attracted to her. I will refrain from explaining what I had to do to her to get her off but it wasn’t amusing I never felt so humiliated in my life. Yes I got more money then we initially agreed on but I couldn’t look at myself in the mirror for a couple of weeks. My body and pride in hindsight were more worth then the 2500 Eu she gave me.

General Discussion / WHO said the pandemic end time is near
« on: September 14, 2022, 07:10:56 PM »
End of Covid-19 pandemic is in sight, WHO director-general says, ‘so let’s seize this opportunity’

Death from covid 19 is more important.  The numbers are dropping.  Can we do it? 

Music Discussion / This is why I don't do Kpop
« on: September 13, 2022, 01:46:45 PM »
I mean the music is good and so are them dancers.  They called them Idol for a reason.  BTS and blackpink, I know you guys loved them. 

But did you know that you might not be wanted in South Korea?  That country has no anti discrimination law.  It was only recommended by the United Nation but still not yet turn into law.  What this means is that you may get hated in South Korean.  Now why would you support their music when they hate you?  Makes no cot dayam sense to me. 

In the 2017–2020 World Values Survey, of the 1245 South Koreans surveyed, 15.2% reported that they would not want someone of a different race as a neighbor.[3] This represents a sharp decrease from the 2010-2014 World Values Survey, where of 1200 South Koreans surveyed, 34.1% mentioned that they would not want someone of a different race as a neighbor.[4] In the 2010–2014 survey, 44.2% reported they would not want "immigrants/foreign workers" as neighbors.[2][5] By the 2017–2020 report, this figure was at 22.0%.[6]

Korean children also show a tendency to discriminate against Africans and people of African descent. In a 2015 research by Education Research International, Korean children show negative responses to darker-skin characters in picture book illustrations. This attitude of children is seen as a reflection of their parent's anti-blackness prejudice towards black people and white-dominant surroundings.[36]

In 2009, Paul Jambor (Assistant professor at Korea University) claimed that Korean college students exhibit discrimination towards foreign professors by calling them by their first names and not showing the same amount of respect towards them[37] as students traditionally show towards their Korean professors.

General Discussion / Why modern humans suvived and Neanderthals did not
« on: September 13, 2022, 01:22:42 PM »
This is probably why there is hmoobrock and then there is theking   :2funny:

General Discussion / scientific way to calm a baby and put them to sleep
« on: September 13, 2022, 01:15:34 PM »
this is good information

There is also one where you hold onto a baby in a fashion that it will stop them from crying right away.  Some pediatrician knows this hack.  I've seen it once and I can't find that article again. 

Poetic Souls / The almost love story in Poetry
« on: September 13, 2022, 12:41:33 PM »
Guys, when the internet was new, your boy duma was an online digital pimp.  I played it like a game.  I don't know why I did it but I just did because it was a strange game that I played.  Maybe I wasn't so sure if the person on the other side of the computer screen is even real and so I needed the confirmation or proof that it is real.  So then, your boy be making these online "girls" to fall in love with him.  Remember that I am the game master so I have total control over my emotions.  I wasn't a catfish so of speak because I wasn't out to lie to these "girls".  I wanted nothing out of the transaction but just using the platform to test out human's emotions and see how powerful is the internet, especially when it comes to online dating and what not. 

This poem is by a teenager girl that I once talked online to.  She felt so overwhelmed that she made a poem out of it and she wrote well too.  This was during the pager days and before all cell phone stuff.  We traded pix and talked a few times over the house phone but we were young so there's no effing way that we are going to meet up for a real hook up.  She was 16 and I was 18. 

Gesh, how long has it been?  25 years maybe? 

Here goes the poem and go straight down to the comment section.  You can tell by the way that I typed hasn't changed much.  My mannerism and grammar errors are still visible, even today.   :2funny:

Soon after she published that poem, I made a comment on it. 
Remember I said I'm just a teaser.  There was an option to leave my direct contact info but I chose not but on there, I acted like I'm really trying to reach out and rekindle the fire   :D

Artists, that's what we are.  From time to time, I still looked her up to see how she's doing.  Found out she married and then I stopped or else it'll be called stalking  ;D

Yall ready to see a pix of her and her husband?   O0

We met online and after a few years, the admin decided to shut the chatting website down.  It kills everything after that.  Same goes with PH.  If they end it here today, we would all walked away being stranger things.  It can happen and it will happen one day.  The story of our ph lives will end there folks. 

General Discussion / Queen Liz is dead today....
« on: September 08, 2022, 01:50:18 PM »
I don't need post a link for verification but a moment of silence to this icon.   :'(

Work Avenue / Inflation and the Job market vs Wages
« on: September 02, 2022, 02:37:35 PM »
Yall seeing wages increase at your work place?  Everyone seems to do it and a must do to retain their employees because people are not just doing the great resignation but are really resigning for a better pay elsewhere. 

Within the past year, my place of employment had a lot of turn overs with managements included.  The people I know from different departments are leaving by the numbers.  They all went to the competition so of speak.  Lets take for example the lowest pay class at our workforce the janitorial crew.  They started out at $15 an hour.  Just 6 months ago, they got bumped up to $19.  Now, it is sitting at $25 an hour.  Crazy huh? 

Big time game changer for most non salaried workers here.  From $15 to $25 in just 1 year is unheard of.  So now, a lot of entry level folks are trying to get hired with us.  Our starting salary is now $25 an hour. 

For having the cutest screening dog. 

Screening dog at Minneapolis-St. Paul Airport wins TSA's 'Cutest Canine Contest'

Computer & Technology / Who here do not have zoom?
« on: August 26, 2022, 05:38:55 PM »
I'm low tech and from the X generation.  I do not have zoom.  They wanted to do a zoom meeting on the weekend and I'm like.... Have IT set up a zoom at headquarter and I'll just drive my butt there to do zoom meeting. 

I know what zoom is.  I just refuses to get on board and be a part of the zoom nation. 

Debate Central / Missouri school district reinstates corporal punishment
« on: August 26, 2022, 12:19:39 PM »
yeh or nay? 

CASSVILLE, Mo. — A school district in southwest Missouri has decided to bring back spanking as a form of discipline for students, but only if their parents agree.

General Discussion / California votes to ban new gas car sales by 2035
« on: August 26, 2022, 12:06:30 PM »
Yes it is happening.  If they want to do this route, at least help support the transition.  Build the infrastructure s.   Get them prices down on t hem EV or rebates and possible making it affordable to put solar panels on your roof.  They also need to think about the poor people who will be the ones who will be left behind on this bill.  California may be the test pilot state and other states might join too.  Washington already on board too I think. 

Washington to follow California with ban on gas-powered cars as red-leaning states sue

General Discussion / What? Your Boy Rocky getting a Divorce?
« on: August 24, 2022, 02:32:01 PM »
Sly is getting divorce after 25 years.  Who saw it coming?  I'm like Wow, hollywood marriage is starting to look like a joke.

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