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Relationship => General Relationship => Topic started by: nchan on September 11, 2016, 12:55:32 AM

Title: What to do with your significant other low sex drive?
Post by: nchan on September 11, 2016, 12:55:32 AM
We're both in our early 30s but she has a very low sex drive. I mean I'm at my sexual peak and she's like a low 2 on the scale of 1-10. I want it everyday, but she only wants it once a week. It's frustrating. I've been thinking about leaving her for a while now. Would you leave your significant other because they have a low sex drive?
Title: Re: What to do with your significant other low sex drive?
Post by: nightrider on September 11, 2016, 11:00:42 AM
Nothing wrong with once a week. Everyday, you're just going to wear yourself out. Like any special dish, you must consider time to savor every bite. Sex manias won't last after 5-10yrs down the road, women will consider you impotent.
Title: Re: What to do with your significant other low sex drive?
Post by: can on September 11, 2016, 01:51:15 PM
We're both in our early 30s but she has a very low sex drive. I mean I'm at my sexual peak and she's like a low 2 on the scale of 1-10. I want it everyday, but she only wants it once a week. It's frustrating. I've been thinking about leaving her for a while now. Would you leave your significant other because they have a low sex drive?

have you talked to her about this? it could be depression, it could be because you had a child, or whatever other reasons. a woman is not a piece of meat for you to do whatever you want with her. there's porn also.  O0
Title: Re: What to do with your significant other low sex drive?
Post by: theking on September 11, 2016, 10:32:08 PM
We're both in our early 30s but she has a very low sex drive. I mean I'm at my sexual peak and she's like a low 2 on the scale of 1-10. I want it everyday, but she only wants it once a week. It's frustrating. I've been thinking about leaving her for a while now. Would you leave your significant other because they have a low sex drive?

Depends...too many variables i.e., thyroid...
Title: Re: What to do with your significant other low sex drive?
Post by: Blongforever on September 12, 2016, 03:33:50 PM
We're both in our early 30s but she has a very low sex drive. I mean I'm at my sexual peak and she's like a low 2 on the scale of 1-10. I want it everyday, but she only wants it once a week. It's frustrating. I've been thinking about leaving her for a while now. Would you leave your significant other because they have a low sex drive?

The light that burns the brightest and the machines that run the fastest will die soon.  Same with the human body.  She is biologically conserving her life and energy.  Bro..., work with her instead of thinking about leaving her.  I won't trade a presumably good with with a hooker or a sex addicted woman cuz shit ain't gona last.
Title: Re: What to do with your significant other low sex drive?
Post by: Hot Pockets on September 12, 2016, 03:51:27 PM
You can love her and you can get sex elsewhere.  Since she don't have to do the dirty work, she don't have to worry.
Title: Re: What to do with your significant other low sex drive?
Post by: nightrider on September 12, 2016, 07:48:20 PM
The light that burns the brightest and the machines that run the fastest will die soon.  Same with the human body.  She is biologically conserving her life and energy.  Bro..., work with her instead of thinking about leaving her.  I won't trade a presumably good with with a hooker or a sex addicted woman cuz shit ain't gona last.

True to that. Folks that over do it will go broke soon. Should the rows reverse, you can only blame yourself when they leave you for the brotha.lol

Hot Pockets,
No women would want your hot dog knowing it's been to another person's bun with an assortments of sauce. If you want to break up, break up clean and move on...
Title: Re: What to do with your significant other low sex drive?
Post by: Hot Pockets on September 13, 2016, 11:06:30 AM
True to that. Folks that over do it will go broke soon. Should the rows reverse, you can only blame yourself when they leave you for the brotha.lol

Hot Pockets,
No women would want your hot dog knowing it's been to another person's bun with an assortments of sauce. If you want to break up, break up clean and move on...

Seems like she don't want hot dog anyways. So why not let someone else eat? And plus she might be having sausage instead of hot dog somewhere else.
Title: Re: What to do with your significant other low sex drive?
Post by: nightrider on September 13, 2016, 06:54:00 PM
 :2funny:

Who knows, that might very be the case but we don't know the whole story.
Title: Re: What to do with your significant other low sex drive?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on September 14, 2016, 09:40:12 AM
Perhaps you only want the deed and nothing in between? How is the foreplay? Are you servicing her right? It's all about the service ;D if the services is bad, of course she would want to pace herself ;)
Title: Re: What to do with your significant other low sex drive?
Post by: Niello on November 08, 2016, 11:32:57 AM
either you encourage her and if it doesn't change then...

1. you cheat
2. you leave her

one of those two...
Title: Re: What to do with your significant other low sex drive?
Post by: fareastlee on November 08, 2016, 08:01:07 PM
Hire a black guy with a big penis to unlock her vagina. It takes something like that to turn women into hoes. Trust me...
Title: Re: What to do with your significant other low sex drive?
Post by: floaty on November 11, 2016, 12:40:57 AM
Cheat or leave? Pretty dumb.

Learn to use lubricants, oils, toys, role play. Try all different methods. Just understand that she may be exhausted from her full time job as well. Or maybe you aren't satisfying her enough?

If it's just a shrimp, it's a waste of time but if it's a dragon, I'm sure the girl would be all up on it.
Title: Re: What to do with your significant other low sex drive?
Post by: NkaujNom on November 16, 2016, 11:12:54 PM
From a medical standpoint, there could be underlying causes such as stress and depression that causes low libido. Once a week seems to be the norm for some people, so if you're not sexually satisfied, but still love your wife - you're going to have to learn how to... Enjoy your day self! Bye!
Title: Re: What to do with your significant other low sex drive?
Post by: thePoster on January 01, 2017, 11:59:51 AM
As funnie as it may sound, she may just not be interested in sex.

Some girls and guys are perfectly content with not having sex.
Title: Re: What to do with your significant other low sex drive?
Post by: Tajo on January 10, 2017, 01:15:59 AM
 :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: :2funny:
Title: Re: What to do with your significant other low sex drive?
Post by: bloggersdigest on February 07, 2017, 10:47:34 AM
We're both in our early 30s but she has a very low sex drive. I mean I'm at my sexual peak and she's like a low 2 on the scale of 1-10. I want it everyday, but she only wants it once a week. It's frustrating. I've been thinking about leaving her for a while now. Would you leave your significant other because they have a low sex drive?

You are even considering leaving her because she won't give you sex every day?
Be realistic now, at least she is giving it to you once a week...
Title: Re: What to do with your significant other low sex drive?
Post by: lexicon on February 07, 2017, 11:14:55 AM
As funnie as it may sound, she may just not be interested in sex.

Some girls and guys are perfectly content with not having sex.

Amen.

Was it not apparent early in the relationship that your s/o had a low sex drive? Or was it something gradual over time as the both of you became more complacent/comfortable? My experience is that you'll encounter highs and lows eventually.
Title: Re: What to do with your significant other low sex drive?
Post by: Prude on February 11, 2017, 04:17:54 AM
The light that burns the brightest and the machines that run the fastest will die soon.  Same with the human body.  She is biologically conserving her life and energy.  Bro..., work with her instead of thinking about leaving her.  I won't trade a presumably good with with a hooker or a sex addicted woman cuz shit ain't gona last.

Her drive will rise in two years and his will go down, huh?
Title: Re: What to do with your significant other low sex drive?
Post by: Prude on February 11, 2017, 04:22:54 AM
We're both in our early 30s but she has a very low sex drive. I mean I'm at my sexual peak and she's like a low 2 on the scale of 1-10. I want it everyday, but she only wants it once a week. It's frustrating. I've been thinking about leaving her for a while now. Would you leave your significant other because they have a low sex drive?

That's why Hmong men have second and third wives. Each night that a woman isn't willing, he just goes over to the other woman.

I've noticed that Hmong men have very strong sex drives into their 50s and even 60s. If there's a young woman involved, into his 80s.

I can tell you that. Incredible! I can tell you that.
Title: Re: What to do with your significant other low sex drive?
Post by: Pocket Aces on February 12, 2017, 01:40:56 AM
We're both in our early 30s but she has a very low sex drive. I mean I'm at my sexual peak and she's like a low 2 on the scale of 1-10. I want it everyday, but she only wants it once a week. It's frustrating. I've been thinking about leaving her for a while now. Would you leave your significant other because they have a low sex drive?

if we have kids.. no? if we dont, yes??,  iwould talk to her and ask her why she refuses to have sex. If its my fault i would improve on my sexual positions and what have you, but if she truly has a low sex drive......see ya. Tell you this bro, get you a white girl!!! They never say no (im generalizing, but the vast majority of them dont)  . Why do you brothas always settle for the same flavor? Do yourself a favor and get a white girl. 
Title: Re: What to do with your significant other low sex drive?
Post by: Meestahh_Prince on February 12, 2017, 09:41:54 PM
We're both in our early 30s but she has a very low sex drive. I mean I'm at my sexual peak and she's like a low 2 on the scale of 1-10. I want it everyday, but she only wants it once a week. It's frustrating. I've been thinking about leaving her for a while now. Would you leave your significant other because they have a low sex drive?

Maybe you just suck in bed?....low sex drive only means two thing, she's either not healthy or she's not getting the pleasure she wants. Women would bother you nonstop if you have the skills to make them cum...imagine you have sex without ejaculation.