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General Category => General Discussion => Topic started by: ProudLao on January 20, 2020, 12:49:49 PM

Title: Household Chores
Post by: ProudLao on January 20, 2020, 12:49:49 PM

Do you split the chores evenly or the wife/husband do more? Does household chores complicate your relationship?

I’m a fair guy and I would like to know from married couples.

Title: Re: Household Chores
Post by: theking on January 20, 2020, 12:56:13 PM

Yes, evenly...and more importantly, fair.. O0

Title: Re: Household Chores
Post by: DuMa on January 20, 2020, 12:57:19 PM

I say the man don't do chit but fish and live off his nursing wife. 

It is the hmongrock way.  The only way in wisconsin.    :2funny:

Title: Re: Household Chores
Post by: hmgROCK on January 21, 2020, 11:10:40 AM

Quote from: DuMa on January 20, 2020, 12:57:19 PM

I say the man don't do chit but fish and live off his nursing wife. 

It is the hmongrock way.  The only way in wisconsin.    :2funny:

haha you know it brother
jk man

don't buy too much shyt
and you won't have to clean soo much
don't come rob me
because you ain't going find anything
i'm a clean person

(https://i.imgur.com/MCPKPE0.jpg)

Title: Re: Household Chores
Post by: hmgROCK on January 21, 2020, 11:13:47 AM

some of yall people like to live dirty
trash and junk everywhere in your house


*not my pic*
(https://therealdeal.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/selling-with-tenants.jpg)

Title: Re: Household Chores
Post by: Reporter on January 21, 2020, 11:22:16 AM

Men divorce women when they have to do household chores, too.

This is just some research around the world. I'm not the one who came up with the statement.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/9572187/Couples-who-share-the-housework-are-more-likely-to-divorce-study-finds.html (https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/9572187/Couples-who-share-the-housework-are-more-likely-to-divorce-study-finds.html)

Title: Re: Household Chores
Post by: ProudLao on January 21, 2020, 12:49:18 PM

This can tear family apart lol

Title: Re: Household Chores
Post by: DuMa on January 21, 2020, 01:18:36 PM

Quote from: Reporter on January 21, 2020, 11:22:16 AM

Men divorce women they have to do household chores, too.

This is just some research around the world. I'm not the one who came up with the statement.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/9572187/Couples-who-share-the-housework-are-more-likely-to-divorce-study-finds.html (https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/9572187/Couples-who-share-the-housework-are-more-likely-to-divorce-study-finds.html)

Thank you for this news that I can use.  Makes sense


“Modern couples are just that, both in the way they divide up the chores and in their perception of marriage” as being less sacred, Mr Hansen said. “In these modern couples, women also have a high level of education and a well-paid job, which makes them less dependent on their spouse financially.

“The more you organise your relationship, the more you work out diaries and schedules, the more it becomes a business relationship than an intimate, loving spontaneous one.

Title: Re: Household Chores
Post by: hmgROCK on January 21, 2020, 02:04:31 PM

i don't know about yall boys
but i enjoy cooking man

i can make some mean goat meat for us to eat
I"M LIKE CHEF RAMSEY O0
(https://i.imgur.com/0Gi67hL.jpg)

Title: Re: Household Chores
Post by: Mr_Mechanic on January 21, 2020, 02:35:55 PM

Quote from: hmgROCK on January 21, 2020, 02:04:31 PM

i don't know about yall boys
but i enjoy cooking man

i can make some mean goat meat for us to eat
I"M LIKE CHEF RAMSEY O0

who's chef ramsey??  do you mean chef gordon ramsay?  just wondering.

Title: Re: Household Chores
Post by: theking on January 21, 2020, 05:03:02 PM

Quote from: hmgROCK on January 21, 2020, 02:04:31 PM

i don't know about yall boys
but i enjoy cooking man

i can make some mean goat meat for us to eat
I"M LIKE CHEF RAMSEY O0
(https://i.imgur.com/0Gi67hL.jpg)

So much for "NOBODY CARES" about the "food and travel channel" ..from the HYPOCRITE FRAUD.. ;D ;D ;D

Title: Re: Household Chores
Post by: Reporter on January 22, 2020, 01:16:48 AM

For those who can’t balance things, yes.

Quote from: ProudLao on January 21, 2020, 12:49:18 PM

This can tear family apart lol

Title: Re: Household Chores
Post by: ProudLao on January 22, 2020, 09:09:57 AM

Quote from: Reporter on January 22, 2020, 01:16:48 AM

For those who can’t balance things, yes.

I was told that women do more than men. So what more can the men do to be fair?

Title: Re: Household Chores
Post by: Reporter on January 22, 2020, 02:44:55 PM

Fairness on other things might be okay. But fairness in household chores will destroy the marriage for sure in most of the cases.
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Just reiterating the professional research.

Quote from: ProudLao on January 22, 2020, 09:09:57 AM

I was told that women do more than men. So what more can the men do to be fair?