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Relationship => Marriage & Family Life => Topic started by: theking on August 16, 2020, 11:51:54 PM

Title: Before looking oversea, we have plenty here in America
Post by: theking on August 16, 2020, 11:51:54 PM
..that needs a home/family to belong to so if I ever support foster care/adopt a kid, I would rather support my fellow Americans  O0:

Oklahoma Boy, 9, in Foster Care Receives Over 5,000 Adoption Submissions After Pleading for a Family

During the viral interview, Jordan was asked what he would wish for if he was given three wishes. “To have a family, and family, family. Those are the only wishes I have,” the 9-year-old said.

“The reason it’s important is so I could have some people to talk to any time I need to,” Jordan added. “I hope one of y’all pick me.”
Title: Re: Before looking oversea, we have plenty here in America
Post by: Reporter on August 17, 2020, 08:11:05 AM
People some times want someone from a different culture or environment that's sharply different from their own. So, overseas is the answer;  it's not the last resort.

Many Caucasian families want a cute African or Asian child, especially a daughter. They absolutely can't have their own there. Nor does the U.S. provide enough of rush kids for these families.

Title: Re: Before looking oversea, we have plenty here in America
Post by: theking on August 17, 2020, 10:40:33 PM
Caucasian families can adopt Caucasian, African and Asian kids oversea as well as here since America is a melting pot and the foster care system has plenty to go around which is why I would rather help out my fellow Americans first than non-American folks in a foreign country if it was me.
Title: Re: Before looking oversea, we have plenty here in America
Post by: Reporter on August 18, 2020, 12:19:39 PM
America loves diversity. Look at Biden! He's picked Kamala Harris for a top position in the country! After Biden, Harris will run the Presidency in order to create more diversity.
Title: Re: Before looking oversea, we have plenty here in America
Post by: ProudLao on August 18, 2020, 12:57:46 PM
At least children in America are being fed well while waiting to be adopted. The whole adopting process takes too long and costly. It’s deterring a family from adopting. If I was to adopt one. It would be someone from Laos.
Title: Re: Before looking oversea, we have plenty here in America
Post by: Reporter on August 18, 2020, 02:31:50 PM
I have been thinking about one from every continent or culture like Angelina Jolie is doing.

There are only 7 continents, it's not too much.

At least children in America are being fed well while waiting to be adopted. The whole adopting process takes too long and costly. It’s deterring a family from adopting. If I was to adopt one. It would be someone from Laos.
Title: Re: Before looking oversea, we have plenty here in America
Post by: theking on August 18, 2020, 04:58:50 PM
I wouldn't mind adopting a blonde blue eye girl so I can give ASSuming ignorants a run for their money.. ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Before looking oversea, we have plenty here in America
Post by: DuMa on August 18, 2020, 07:06:39 PM
I think it is in the heart of an individual. 

Like angelina jolie, she adopted different kinds

Like sia, she adopted 2 fully grown 18 years old.  Well now she's a grandma cuz one of them just pops out twins.   Judgement free zone here.

Lets say if you grew up in the mother land and your good neighbor is a good neighbor to your folks and your whole family are in america while they are still stricken by poverty there.  You wish you can save the whole family but the most you can do is adopt one of their baby.  At least this kid can grow up to be someone special and if they still have the heart to help support their own family, they can do so once grown. 



Title: Re: Before looking oversea, we have plenty here in America
Post by: ProudLao on August 19, 2020, 09:18:29 AM
I have been thinking about one from every continent or culture like Angelina Jolie is doing.

There are only continents, it's not too much.

You will be a good daddy
Title: Re: Before looking oversea, we have plenty here in America
Post by: Reporter on August 19, 2020, 12:29:47 PM
It's one thing to care for someone else's kids; it's another to care for one's own.

I wonder how I'll do with my own.

You will be a good daddy
Title: Re: Before looking oversea, we have plenty here in America
Post by: ProudLao on August 19, 2020, 12:44:08 PM
I spoiled my daughter rotten lol, you will probably be the same lol
Title: Re: Before looking oversea, we have plenty here in America
Post by: Reporter on August 19, 2020, 12:46:35 PM
Lol.

I don't see myself being able to raise a finger on her.
Title: Re: Before looking oversea, we have plenty here in America
Post by: theking on August 19, 2020, 05:25:05 PM
I spoiled my daughter rotten lol, you will probably be the same lol

We only have one child but we don't spoiled her..We teach her a very important life lesson early on that she's gotta earn her keeps... ;D:

Earlier tonight, I asked my daughter if she likes the food my wife made and she said: "I don't like it but I will eat it so I won't go hungry".  ;D

Atta girl, a quick learner... O0

We as parents don't cater to our daughter so she has to eat what we cook or she goes hungry. That's how we were raised  (eat what's on the dinner table) so we are trying to teach our daughter that important life lesson and the sooner, the better...
Title: Re: Before looking oversea, we have plenty here in America
Post by: ProudLao on August 19, 2020, 09:46:35 PM
Lol.

I don't see myself being able to raise a finger on her.

Can’t blame you there lol
Title: Re: Before looking oversea, we have plenty here in America
Post by: ProudLao on August 19, 2020, 09:49:11 PM
We only have one child but we don't spoiled her..We teach her a very important life lesson early on that she's gotta earn her keeps... ;D:

Same here, I spoiled her but I also taught her how I grew up. She’s a very smart young lady. I must say I have done pretty well for myself.

Keep up the good work theking. Enjoy every moment with her, time flies man.