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Relationship => Marriage & Family Life => Topic started by: theking on February 21, 2022, 10:38:50 PM

Title: I have a relative that was able to overcome it when his wife cheated on him
Post by: theking on February 21, 2022, 10:38:50 PM: ..so yes, some couples can work things out even on big issues like the couple below:

Terry Crews and His Wife Rebecca Overcame Cheating and Addiction in Their Marriage

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Title: Re: I have a relative that was able to overcome it when his wife cheated on him
Post by: Reporter on February 22, 2022, 01:33:54 PM: Usually, the innocent spouse cheats back to equalize things and then they get along again. ;D ;D ;D

I know of couples who have broken up, each going separate ways, dating to their hearts' desires and come back to marry permanently.

I have a former client of two whose husband kept cheating on her. She divorced him and went out with another guy and did everything under the roof. He ended
up begging her back. She remarried him.
Title: Re: I have a relative that was able to overcome it when his wife cheated on him
Post by: theking on February 22, 2022, 04:21:05 PM: Yep, it's really up to the individuals to decide and work things out especially here in America..
Title: Re: I have a relative that was able to overcome it when his wife cheated on him
Post by: theking on February 22, 2022, 04:25:45 PM: I know with my relative, some of his family members like his uncles were telling him to dump his wife's azz and get that bride-price refunded back even though they've been married for 10 years with a couple of kids.. :idiot2: ;D

I told him that primitive practice and claim will not fly in court..if his wife decides to challenge it...

and told him to weigh all options and pick the one that's best for him and only he can really decide what's best for him...
Title: Re: I have a relative that was able to overcome it when his wife cheated on him
Post by: ProudLao on February 22, 2022, 05:44:51 PM: Definitely up to the individual.
Title: Re: I have a relative that was able to overcome it when his wife cheated on him
Post by: Reporter on February 23, 2022, 12:57:04 PM: How do people put their faith on such uncles to guide them in life?

Quote from: theking on February 22, 2022, 04:25:45 PM
I know with my relative, some of his family members like his uncles were telling him to dump his wife's azz and get that bride-price refunded back even though they've been married for 10 years with a couple of kids.. :idiot2: ;D

I told him that primitive practice and claim will not fly in court..if his wife decides to challenge it...

and told him to weigh all options and pick the one that's best for him and only he can really decide what's best for him...
Title: Re: I have a relative that was able to overcome it when his wife cheated on him
Post by: theking on February 23, 2022, 04:32:49 PM: Quote from: Reporter on February 23, 2022, 12:57:04 PM
How do people put their faith on such uncles to guide them in life?

Glad he didn't listen to them because they are the type with a primitive, it's OK for Hmong men to cheat on their wives and even married their mistresses as their second, third, forth, ...wives due to cultural norms and kev cai but if the wife does it, she must be stoned to death mentality... :idiot2:
Title: Re: I have a relative that was able to overcome it when his wife cheated on him
Post by: Reporter on February 23, 2022, 05:05:00 PM: Aren't there still a lot of uncles everywhere?
Title: Re: I have a relative that was able to overcome it when his wife cheated on him
Post by: theking on February 23, 2022, 11:26:54 PM: Not sure how many blood uncles he has as I'm considered on the in-law side...but glad, he didn't listen to his uncles' primitive advice.. O0