PebHmong Discussion Forum
Relationship => Marriage & Family Life => Topic started by: Reporter on March 03, 2022, 09:24:12 AM
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I'm not saying she has to be the main cook but I'm saying she has to know how to cook, to help out with cooking.
Can't let the man do all the cooking. Can't just go out all the times.
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Good luck! Thats our dream but not all dream come true
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Thanks. I'm waiting for one.
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I only know how to turn something "raw" into something "cooked."
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I only know how to turn something "raw" into something "cooked."
At least not from raw to burn...
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I'm not saying she has to be the main cook but I'm saying she has to know how to cook, to help out with cooking.
Can't let the man do all the cooking. Can't just go out all the times.
Agreed to a certain point. I would say that she to cook on occasion or when necessary..... .............b y me. ;D
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;D ;D
Agreed to a certain point. I would say that she to cook on occasion or when necessary..... .............b y me. ;D
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Reporter,
That is why I suggested that you better marry someone like Liziqi. She even grows her own food. She made shoes for her elderly grandmother and a mattress bed from the cotton that she cultivated. Think of how resourceful she would be during this pandemic and the inflated prices. O0
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Will she be doing that in Minnesota, BNM? Minnesota!
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That’s probably why you are single
You expect them to cook and clean
HMONG OG MINDSET
Do you watch PRO WRESTLING???
Like TRIPLE H, THE UNDERTAKER, STONE COLD
Sometimes they do like tag team matches 2v2
Because marriage is a tag team match
You share beating together
O0 O0 O0
(https://i.ytimg.com/vi/_VeDP3GNP4Y/maxresdefault.jpg)
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Will she be doing that in Minnesota, BNM? Minnesota!
Why not? She is very resourceful and industrious. She would adapt to the Minnesota climate.
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Where can she get sugarcanes in Minnesota? Or fresh gourds, green from the land?
Why not? She is very resourceful and industrious. She would adapt to the Minnesota climate.
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You are missing the post. Re-read three times and think about what I said first. Then you might understand what I'm saying.
That’s probably why you are single
You expect them to cook and clean
HMONG OG MINDSET
Do you watch PRO WRESTLING???
Like TRIPLE H, THE UNDERTAKER, STONE COLD
Sometimes they do like tag team matches 2v2
Because marriage is a tag team match
You share beating together
O0 O0 O0
(https://i.ytimg.com/vi/_VeDP3GNP4Y/maxresdefault.jpg)
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Hmong OG thinking mindset
When covid hit
And my wife was working hard
Overtime and shyt
And i was eating unemployment
I did all the cooking
;D ;D ;D O0 O0 O0
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You are missing the post. Re-read three times and think about what I said first. Then you might understand what I'm saying.
Don't think "three times" or a million times will help THAT GUY understand "the point", now you know why the neutral PH members said, he has "reading comprehension" issues and "don't know anything"... ;D
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Where can she get sugarcanes in Minnesota? Or fresh gourds, green from the land?
She wouldn't grow sugarcane. She would grow indigenous plants in Minnesota and make them tasty.
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Gotta wait a whole season to get breakfast, huh?
She wouldn't grow sugarcane. She would grow indigenous plants in Minnesota and make them tasty.
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:D
R,
Aye-aye...you just don't even want to try. :-\ How much coaxing does a person have to do to get you to consider?
Zoo li no xwb ces khuam liziqi cov hauj lwm xwb os. ::)
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Ain't gonna be able to grow any native plants in our winters here, BNM. When is breakfast?
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You can skip breakfast. It's not going to be bad for your health.
https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/is-skipping-breakfast-bad#:~:text=Breakfast%20Is%20Optional&text=It%20probably%20does%20not%20matter,you%20overeat%20and%20gain%20weight. (https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/is-skipping-breakfast-bad#:~:text=Breakfast%20Is%20Optional&text=It%20probably%20does%20not%20matter,you%20overeat%20and%20gain%20weight.)
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Ok. But gotta wait a whole season to get lunch, huh?
You can skip breakfast. It's not going to be bad for your health.
https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/is-skipping-breakfast-bad#:~:text=Breakfast%20Is%20Optional&text=It%20probably%20does%20not%20matter,you%20overeat%20and%20gain%20weight. (https://www.healthline.com/nutrition/is-skipping-breakfast-bad#:~:text=Breakfast%20Is%20Optional&text=It%20probably%20does%20not%20matter,you%20overeat%20and%20gain%20weight.)
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Ok. But gotta wait a whole season to get lunch, huh?
R,
No need to be so preoccupied with breakfast, lunch, and dinner as long as she is giving you dessert. O0
Men have lived and survived on less.
Thaum tsis tau sib yuav nej twb lav txheem lub ntuj ne.
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Without breakfast, lunch, and dinner, where's my energy to hold up the sky, BNM?
R,
No need to be so preoccupied with breakfast, lunch, and dinner as long as she is giving you dessert. O0
Men have lived and survived on less.
Thaum tsis tau sib yuav nej twb lav txheem lub ntuj ne.
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Haus dej, haus cua. O0
That is why we never see phaj ej actually eating a meal in those K-dramas and C-dramas.
Apparently, eating is not an important detail in making love and marriage work. ;D
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I read novels and I don’t see characters eat, either. For years and years, they keep loving and living without any sign of eating.
Ok. I believe you now. Sounds like a world you and I can live in. Come! Let’s do this together.
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I read novels and I don’t see characters eat, either. For years and years, they keep loving and living without any sign of eating.
Ok. I believe you now. Sounds like a world you and I can live in. Come! Let’s do this together.
I've been ready!
I'm a believer.
You just needed to Believe_N_Me.
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Good. So am I.
I believe in you now as you shall also believe in me.
You’re going to see a side of me you had never seen before.
I've been ready!
I'm a believer.
You just needed to Believe_N_Me.
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Txheem tau ntuj lawm lod? :)
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Ib txwm txheem es lod.
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Vuag! Tiag li? Nyias nco ntsoov nyias cov lus nawb.
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Tiag laud.
Ua li kiag.
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Lwm zaus yog hloov siab los yog vim tsis zoo li thaum ub lawm xwb nad. Tsis yog txhob txwm nad.
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Ces kav tsij nrhiav tus poj niam siab loj nawb. Thiab tus uas tsis hla txoj kab os.
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Cas nej siab yuav me ua luaj na?
Luag tso dag tawb xwb, rawm siv chim lawm na.
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Cas nej siab yuav me ua luaj na?
Luag tso dag tawb xwb, rawm siv chim lawm na.
Koj to taub kuv yuam kev os. Kuv tsis yog chim rau koj na. Kuv hais tias nej cov txiv neej yuav tau nrhiav tus niam tsev siab loj.
I'm not much of a feet person. More like a neck person. O0
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Ok. You're being sexual here. This is the side I don't have. No neck-kissing, etc.
Zoo mas, tias koj tsis chim.
Koj to taub kuv yuam kev os. Kuv tsis yog chim rau koj na. Kuv hais tias nej cov txiv neej yuav tau nrhiav tus niam tsev siab loj.
I'm not much of a feet person. More like a neck person. O0
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Sexual?
I was talking about xais caj dab. Neck massage.
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Oh, lod.
Ok. One side of the neck and then the other side.
A story runs like this: a male masseuse is very well-known and so a lot of people go to him for the service; among many who had actual needs was this woman who
intentionally sought him out. He massaged her neck; she said to go lower; he massaged her belly, she said lower...ok, I'm not saying more.
Sexual?
I was talking about xais caj dab. Neck massage.
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Oh, lod.
Ok. One side of the neck and then the other side.
A story runs like this: a male masseuse is very well-known and so a lot of people go to him for the service; among many who had actual needs was this woman who
intentionally sought him out. He massaged her neck; she said to go lower; he massaged her belly, she said lower...ok, I'm not saying more.
Calf muscles need massaging, too.
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He did go down there but she now said higher up and to the front, too.
Calf muscles need massaging, too.
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Where might one find this male masseuse? :)
Keej npaum li ntawv diam?
All I know is NEVER get a massage from those Chinese kiosks in the mall. >:(
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You've caught on. Aib ntawv keej heev mas. I did hear that she went back many more times.
We do have a few around. But I think they are very ethical. The one in that story was back in Laos.
I once went to a woman masseuse in Woodbury. She asked if I wanted her to massage the back or the front
of my body. I said the back is enough.
Where might one find this male masseuse? :)
Keej npaum li ntawv diam?
All I know is NEVER get a massage from those Chinese kiosks in the mall. >:(
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Did you wake up sore afterwards? I was so sore that I could barely get out of bed.
I like my massage therapist, which is at a salon. That reminds me. I need to schedule an appointment. I keep getting text specials.
Koj puas nrog kuv mus? Txiv neej mus tau thiab tab sis nws yog ib lub salon muaj manicure thiab pedicure. Also massage.
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I wake up very alert and well each day after getting massages.
Mus wb mus ua ke mas. Thaum tawm los wb mam sib qhia tias nyias qhov zoo cas no mas. Muaj manicure thiab pedicure los tsis ua cas. I just get the massages.
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Kuv yeej ntseeg tiag cov niag masseuse ntawd muaj txuj ci loj nawb. I had a really deep and irritable rhomboid muscle pain that no amount of massage from the boss would help. Then I went to see a masseuse and I was pain-free for half a year.
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There’s a reason they are certified.
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Some people have the touch.
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Yes. My other masseuse has some great touches. She puts me to sleep every time on the table.
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You have more than one masseuse?
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I have one I go to as needed...on the back massages. The one who asked if I wanted the front, too, was just one time.
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What kind of massage do they give on the front side?
Qhov ntawm no mas kuv tseem tsis tau sim dua li nawb.
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I don't know. The chest, forehead, cheeks and lips?
That's why I turned her offer down.
What kind of massage do they give on the front side?
Qhov ntawm no mas kuv tseem tsis tau sim dua li nawb.
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Yog li ces lwm zaus mam sim seb zoo li cas.
I have not tried a male masseuse before. A female friend of mine has because her workplace had them come in. I won't repeat what she said other than it felt really good. I've seen male doctors before but not male masseuse.
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Try male chiro doctors.
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I'm scared to go see a chiro.
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They are masseuses, too.
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But are they as handsome? I would imagine that male masseuses should be on the slightly handsomer side.
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Look varies among individuals for sure.
If you want to work with just beautiful and handsome people, go into TV broadcasting. I've seen...
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Everybody on tv looks good. Even the people who are supposed to be average and unattractive are photogenic.
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But TV has made it a point to choose good-looking people for their sets in the first place.
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So koj nyiam tus poj niam txawj ua noj li cas?
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Just anything cooked on the table some of the times, like dinners mostly.
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Just anything cooked on the table some of the times, like dinners mostly.
Oh, okay. Tsis muaj breakfast los tsis ua li cas mas yom?
Es noj nqaij hau xwb puas okay thiab?
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Breakfast ces kuv ntse khob noom mis nyuj xwb tau lawm. Kuv nyiam yooj yooj yim li ntawd. Tsuav txhob yog cov qab qab zib heev xwb.
Nqaij qaib hau los yog nqaij npuas hau nrog zaub ntsuab xwb los okay kawg mas. Kuv nyiam zaub tsuag thiab.
Li xwb koj txawj mas yom.
Oh, okay. Tsis muaj breakfast los tsis ua li cas mas yom?
Es noj nqaij hau xwb puas okay thiab?
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Zoo mas. :)
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Aws.
Kuv tsis nyiam kom siv ob xuab moo ua ib pluas mov xwb. Ob xuab moo ntawd yus twb ua tau lwm yam hauj lwm lawm. Zaub mov ua tsuag tsuag me me noj xwb tau lawm.
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Yes, and dishes that don't require a lot of pots and pans to prepare.
I typically menu plan the week ahead but some times I just throw things together at the last minute.
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Right.
People who plan their meals are most fit and healthy.
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And trying to budget. O0
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That, too. But one who has a plan in place is very organized as well.
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I've been trying to live a minimalistic lifestyle.
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Low profile, too, here.
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Low profile? How are girls getting your number off FB? :D
That reminds me. I searched myself on Google and it was not that hard to get all the info. :dark1:
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Being on Google isn't high-profile. High-profile is like one of those Hmong pab tha or the coj noj coj ua people.
Low profile? How are girls getting your number off FB? :D
That reminds me. I searched myself on Google and it was not that hard to get all the info. :dark1: