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Relationship => Marriage & Family Life => Topic started by: Reporter on March 07, 2022, 12:45:02 AM

Title: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Reporter on March 07, 2022, 12:45:02 AM
Some have up to just two.But  many have 7 to 11. Is it something enjoyable? Why so many, for those who have a lot?
Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: EllisIsland on March 07, 2022, 07:39:58 PM
 O0
Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Reporter on March 07, 2022, 08:31:36 PM
 :)
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Post by: Believe_N_Me on March 20, 2022, 12:08:42 AM
I stopped being a super mom after #. Before that I would make all their Halloween costumes, bake and design their birthday cakes, decorate their parties, volunteer at their school, enroll them in extra-curricular activities, wait in long lines at Toys R Us on Black Fridays to get them the exact thing on their Christmas list, etc.

I still remember one time my husband and I hit every Target, Walmart, Kohl's, etc. just to find a Monster High doll. ::) And that one time we hit every Gamestop, Walmart, Target, etc. just to find the specific rare Skylander because some lil' boy decided at the last minute that was the only thing he wanted in the whole entire world.

Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Reporter on March 21, 2022, 06:21:53 AM
And no problem giving births? No pain? Is it enjoyable?
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Post by: Cali Guy on March 21, 2022, 11:07:45 AM
And no problem giving births? No pain? Is it enjoyable?

I can tell you from my perspective. I was emotionally numb from seeing my wife in so much physical pain. I could be descriptive but will save you from the trauma.
Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Reporter on March 21, 2022, 01:06:41 PM
No need to describe any of that to me. I have seen several births when I was still interpreting for the medical profession.

I can tell you from my perspective. I was emotionally numb from seeing my wife in so much physical pain. I could be descriptive but will save you from the trauma.
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Post by: Cali Guy on March 21, 2022, 04:13:41 PM
No need to describe any of that to me. I have seen several births when I was still interpreting for the medical profession.

That is just business with no emotional attachment, a different perspective. Think of a total stranger being in extreme physical pain and now think of someone you love being in similar pain.
Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Reporter on March 21, 2022, 09:14:44 PM
I melt. I wish I could take that pain away from her.

Is that how it feels?

That is just business with no emotional attachment, a different perspective. Think of a total stranger being in extreme physical pain and now think of someone you love being in similar pain.
Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Believe_N_Me on March 21, 2022, 09:33:04 PM
^^^

That's what epidurals are for.  O0

Anyways, there is always elected c-section. Morning talkshow host, Kelly Ripa, had all her children via c-section.
Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Reporter on March 23, 2022, 08:16:38 AM
Natural birth is painful enough. Why allow yourself to be cut?
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Post by: Believe_N_Me on March 23, 2022, 08:33:22 AM
It's the 21st century. There is anesthesia.
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Post by: Reporter on March 23, 2022, 08:42:34 AM
The scar is forever there.
Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Believe_N_Me on March 23, 2022, 10:28:03 AM
Better there than....okay, I won't even go there.  :nono:
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Post by: Reporter on March 23, 2022, 12:38:35 PM
Stretched marks are ok to have on the belly.

Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Believe_N_Me on March 23, 2022, 01:08:04 PM
Stretch marks are never okay to have anywhere on the body.  :'(

Some hide it better than others, depending on the skin tone.



Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Reporter on March 23, 2022, 02:32:56 PM
Some women keep them off. So, too, do some men. It's just a matter of toning, indeed.
Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Believe_N_Me on March 24, 2022, 08:06:53 AM
Do men enjoy having kids? Or do they just enjoy making them?  :)
Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Reporter on March 24, 2022, 12:46:13 PM
Men enjoy making women have them. But we forget that child support will come hard at us some times. The excitement in making the women have them is too strong that we are blinded by it. After five to seven kids, we find the cost too extreme. Then we realize it wasn't all that exciting at first but we just didn't stop ourselves.

Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Believe_N_Me on March 24, 2022, 01:13:14 PM
It's very interesting to have a baby with someone. A lot of times the baby is just like the daddy.

No need for paternity test.  :)
Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Reporter on March 24, 2022, 01:42:25 PM
I should have one with someone soon then. I'm excited now.

You tell me when I should. I'll comply.
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Post by: Believe_N_Me on March 24, 2022, 04:13:15 PM
ASAP, of course.
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Post by: Reporter on March 24, 2022, 07:51:05 PM
Ok. I'll start the process next week. Thanks.
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Post by: Believe_N_Me on March 25, 2022, 07:23:56 AM
Next week?

That is not ASAP.
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Post by: Reporter on March 25, 2022, 08:24:16 AM
How soon is ASAP?

Are you suggesting tonight?
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Post by: Believe_N_Me on March 25, 2022, 08:28:13 AM
I'm suggesting now.

Do not let mountains, rivers, and lakes stop you. Lod?
Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Reporter on March 25, 2022, 09:10:09 AM
Can't do that alone, you know.
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Post by: Believe_N_Me on March 25, 2022, 09:13:21 AM
Kuv paub.

There are trains, plains, and automobiles to help.
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Post by: Reporter on March 25, 2022, 09:16:45 AM
Ok. I accept.
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Post by: Believe_N_Me on March 25, 2022, 09:20:30 AM
Tiag li? Li ntawd ces zoo mas.

Back in Laos, our fathers walked through a jungle to court our mothers. Sometimes they did not get back home until very late at night. Lawv twb muaj peev xwm tid poj dab poj ntxoog ces I'm sure our modern Hmong men can get to their woman.
Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Reporter on March 25, 2022, 09:25:32 AM
It is the heart that's hard to overcome for such quick request. Not the physical barriers on the way.
Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Believe_N_Me on March 25, 2022, 09:34:25 AM
True. The feeling of longing and missing someone is agonizing. Can't think or accomplish anything, really.
Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Reporter on March 25, 2022, 09:48:13 AM
That, too.
Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Believe_N_Me on March 25, 2022, 09:56:01 AM
Awww...es koj hom dai siab rau leej twg na? I'm fascinated to hear men share from their perspective.
Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Reporter on March 25, 2022, 10:56:33 AM
Kuj tsis tau muaj dua uas yuav txaus hu tias dai siab.
Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Believe_N_Me on March 25, 2022, 12:11:58 PM
Puas xav muaj ma?
Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Reporter on March 25, 2022, 03:39:50 PM
Xav laud. Leej twg thiaj tsis xav ma? Ntiaj teb yeej xav muaj tus dai siab mas.
Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Believe_N_Me on March 31, 2022, 01:03:56 PM
Xav laud. Leej twg thiaj tsis xav ma? Ntiaj teb yeej xav muaj tus dai siab mas.

What does a girl have to do to get you to dai siab rau nws?
Title: Re: Do women enjoy having kids?
Post by: Reporter on March 31, 2022, 01:31:30 PM
Zoo li tus yog twb paub lawm as lod.

What does a girl have to do to get you to dai siab rau nws?