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Relationship => Marriage & Family Life => Topic started by: EllisIsland on March 30, 2022, 09:25:40 AM
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Knew a couple .. husband had 35k from a death benefit of one of his parents. He married his wife and two years later she took out 35k from their saving and he had no idea until a month later. He confronts her and she said she used it to pay for her student loan.
Is it considered stealing? They are still married. She also lie she was making so much money when she wasn’t. He found that out too during this whole thing.
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No but they have some issues they have to it work out. Her loan is his loan and his loan is her loan so that 35k went into their debt. Debt is gone, that's a good thing.
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At least half of that is hers.
Then the rest is his, which belongs to her also.
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I get that what’s his is hers but to me it’s pretty shady for a spouse to spend that money without even telling you about it. That should have been a decision you make together. Plus she lied about how much she was making, and lied that she didn’t have any student loan to begin with. Buti think the reason she did that was because their marriage was on the rock and she figure she takes that money n pay her student loan so if they divorced she won’t have to carry that loan. They were not legally married at the time when all this happen.
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She’s an opportunist.
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A bad trait to have in a spouse, who knows what other things she have done behind his back. Money or property before marriage isn’t communal from my understanding. She’s a classic gold digger!
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No, its not stealing
If you guys are married
Everything is both yours
50/50
You married the student loan debt and everything
Credit card debt
Car loan
Etc…
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A bad trait to have in a spouse, who knows what other things she have done behind his back. Money or property before marriage isn’t communal from my understanding. She’s a classic gold digger!
This is trash pure garbage advice
Don’t listen to a word this guy spew
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Sometimes people do stupid things and this is one of them. But if you look at the bigger picture, her debt is also his since they are a couple/married. Debt is gone so that's a good thing, right? She didn't use the money for gambling, or something else...
AND no, she's not an opportunist but rather made a poor decision. Don't we all made poor decisions from time to time? Even among couples... This is why people work thru things and do better.
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Yall some funny cat
THESE PEOPLE ARE SINGLE AND DIVORCED
I don’t even go to college
And I’m paying my wife’s student loan debt.. sometimes
;D ;D
Her debt is my debt
That just how it is
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No, its not stealing
If you guys are married
Everything is both yours
50/50
You married the student loan debt and everything
Credit card debt
Car loan
Etc…
I understand English is foreign to you so is finance.
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Yall some funny cat
THESE PEOPLE ARE SINGLE AND DIVORCED
I don’t even go to college
And I’m paying my wife’s student loan debt.. sometimes
;D ;D
Her debt is my debt
That just how it is
How are you going to pay her student loan with no job? Thought you claimed your wife makes good money being a nurse and you wear the aprons in the kitchen? Time has changed?
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I understand English is foreign to you so is finance.
$35k from your dead parents is not alot of money
To poor people like yourself it is
There nothing GOLD DIGGER about it
Maybe if the dude was a rich ass business man
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How are you going to pay her student loan with no job? Thought you claimed your wife makes good money being a nurse and you wear the aprons in the kitchen? Time has changed?
You married their family, friends, credit card debt, student loan etc…
50/50
That just how it is
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$35k from your dead parents is not alot of money
To poor people like yourself it is
There nothing GOLD DIGGER about it
Maybe if the dude was a rich ass business man
I get why you’re mad because you do some gold digging yourself. lol
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You married their family, friends, credit card debt, student loan etc…
50/50
That just how it is
50/50? Then why not go make as much as your nurse wife that you so claimed?
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I get why you’re mad because you do some gold digging yourself. lol
My wife is riddle with debt
Gotten a little better over the years
Sometimes I even help pay her student loan
;D ;D ;D
The hospital where she work at
Has agreed to pay majority of her students loan
But she has to agreed and work there for like 5-10 years
And dont quit
HAHAHHA FUNNY SHYT
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My wife is riddle with debt
Gotten a little better over the years
Sometimes I even help pay her student loan
;D ;D ;D
The hospital where she work at
Has agreed to pay majority of her students loan
But she has to agreed and work there for like 5-10 years
And dont quit
HAHAHHA FUNNY SHYT
How are you paying her loan when she is bringing home the money? Now that is funny shiet!
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How are you paying her loan when she is bringing home the money? Now that is funny shiet!
I’ve been with my wife for a long time
When she was still my GF
I can eat beef and chicken with her
I can eat rice+H20
Shyt taste good when you eat with your love one
O0 O0 O0
Thats love
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I’ve been with my wife for a long time
When she was still my GF
I can eat beef and chicken with her
I can eat rice+H20
Shyt taste good when you eat with your love one
O0 O0 O0
Thats love
Thought you said 50/50, why aren’t you making as much money as your nurse wife?
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Thought you said 50/50, why aren’t you making as much money as your nurse wife?
Because money is meaningless to me
Whatever happens to doing what you love??
Isn’t that what we were taught growing up??
Hopefully there WORK REFORM soon in these country
Because $1,500 or $35k is really not alot of money
My $1,500 on robinhood is like a GOLD MINE TO YOU :2funny: :2funny: :2funny:
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Because money is meaningless to me
Whatever happens to doing what you love??
Isn’t that what we were taught growing up??
Hopefully there WORK REFORM soon in these country
Because $1,500 or $35k is really not alot of money
My $1,500 on robinhood is like a GOLD MINE TO YOU :2funny: :2funny: :2funny:
Money is meaningless to you yet you whine about money everyday. Slave wages? You are very confused or a genuine hypocrite.
If you think 1500 is a goldmine, better get your head examined.
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Money is meaningless to you yet you whine about money everyday. Slave wages? You are very confused or a genuine hypocrite.
If you think 1500 is a goldmine, better get your head examined.
$7.25 federal minimum is slave wage
You don’t need a 4 years college to figure this one out
Good thing there government welfare assistance
thats why you don’t see
LET THEM EAT CAKE… yet
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$7.25 federal minimum is slave wage
You don’t need a 4 years college to figure this one out
Good thing there government welfare assistance
thats why you don’t see
LET THEM EAT CAKE… yet
I wouldn’t be surprised if you are getting assistance from foodshare.
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I wouldn’t be surprised if you are getting assistance from foodshare.
I did took advantage of the USDA food box during covid
;D ;D ;D
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I wouldn’t be surprised if you are getting assistance from foodshare.
So all them pix of them beef and chicken he be posting, well that's food stamp money he payed for. In other words, your tax dollars are in it so he's welcoming you to come to his supper to eat your fair share. :2funny:
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Stealing is taking what is not yours. You gotta see who name is on the account so if her name is also in it as a joint account then she can extract it so no, it is not stealing.
Now did she make the right decision, that is subjective. Had that was me, I'll biatch and moan about it for a bit but she'll end up knowing my trait and know that i'll get over it and close the case by the following day. I'll go make more money, no big deal. Women, if you love them, they'll do things that will drive you nuts and get away with them small time crimes.
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How are you paying her loan when she is bringing home the money? Now that is funny shiet!
It is called poocee whip bra
Small balls syndrome when you don't have the control of the house
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It is called poocee whip bra
Small balls syndrome when you don't have the control of the house
He might be nonbinary. lol
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So all them pix of them beef and chicken he be posting, well that's food stamp money he payed for. In other words, your tax dollars are in it so he's welcoming you to come to his supper to eat your fair share. :2funny:
Rocky is stretching his food stamp dollars by buying in bulk. Smart if you asked me, lol.
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I did took advantage of the USDA food box during covid
;D ;D ;D
There isn’t no shame if you need it!
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Knew a couple .. husband had 35k from a death benefit of one of his parents. He married his wife and two years later she took out 35k from their saving and he had no idea until a month later. He confronts her and she said she used it to pay for her student loan.
Is it considered stealing? They are still married. She also lie she was making so much money when she wasn’t. He found that out too during this whole thing.
In a way 'yes' it is stealing. That is a lot of money to spend without the spouse's knowledge or agreement.