PebHmong Discussion Forum
Relationship => The Single & Dating Scenes => Topic started by: theking on May 17, 2022, 04:27:17 PM
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I'm attracted to my sister's husband what should I do?
I'm recently divorced and have been lonely. My sister and her husband have run into a tough time so I let them live with me in the spare bedroom. It helps them financially and I enjoy having someone around the house now that I'm single again. But after four months it's gotten rough. They are loud during sex and they have it almost every night. I mean I thought I had a good sex life when I was married now I realize I was wrong. They go at it like newlyweds but they've been married five years! I'm beginning to become aroused when I hear them and I've started to find myself drawn to my brother in law. He's helping around the house - mowing the lawn, fixing furniture, things I'm not good at - and knowing that he is also skilled in the bedroom has me thinking of him a lot. It's getting hard not to make a move but he is still my brother in law which is what has kept me from doing anything. Should I through them out? I'm concerned my lust will get the best of me and I'll ruin my sisters marriage and I can't do that. Wouldn't it be better to kick them out and send them on their way than to have an affair?
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I’m not a woman but that’s a no. Sick in the head there.
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When I was young and one advice that was given to me from an older gentleman is that, married people or those with s/o on deployment are the first to cheat. Not for relationship but for genital pleasure. Yeah, and they pretend to be more single then actual single people. :D
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She should ask them to move out. Nothing wrong with encouraging them to find a place of their own. Maybe she can even help them find a place to rent.
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If she's single atm then she should stay away from the couples at all cost.