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Relationship => Marriage & Family Life => Topic started by: Dok_Champa on September 09, 2022, 03:16:03 PM

Title: Choose Your Spouse Wisely
Post by: Dok_Champa on September 09, 2022, 03:16:03 PM

mmmmmmmm hmmmmmm yeppie.  Good advice to you single folks.

Title: Re: Choose Your Spouse Wisely
Post by: Visualmon on September 09, 2022, 03:36:46 PM

I'm thinking of Amish women. They're loyal and they won't leave me ever.  :D jk

I'm going for European women especially Italian or Norwegian. Not that they're beautiful or anything else. Just having to do with mutual and connection when feeling intertwine after second/third meeting. 

Title: Re: Choose Your Spouse Wisely
Post by: Reporter on September 11, 2022, 04:29:02 AM

Elaborate, Dok. Elaborate. Young people don't know what "wisely" means.

Title: Re: Choose Your Spouse Wisely
Post by: Believe_N_Me on September 11, 2022, 11:09:50 AM

I'm not sure how much more wiser a person can be. Everything can be seemingly perfect and then in a blink of an eye, the perfect life you thought you had is gone.

I'll go with someone whom I love with all my heart. If he reciprocates and we marry, I will put effort into building a life with this person.

That's all a person can really do. You can't control what the other person will do.

Title: Re: Choose Your Spouse Wisely
Post by: Reporter on September 11, 2022, 11:58:32 AM

Quote from: Believe_N_Me on September 11, 2022, 11:09:50 AM

I'm not sure how much more wiser a person can be. Everything can be seemingly perfect and then in a blink of an eye, the perfect life you thought you had is gone.

I'll go with someone whom I love with all my heart. If he reciprocates and we marry, I will put effort into building a life with this person.

That's all a person can really do. You can't control what the other person will do.

True. You can't really control what the other person will do. Reciprocity is a big factor.

Title: Re: Choose Your Spouse Wisely
Post by: Dok_Champa on September 13, 2022, 02:13:09 PM

Quote from: Reporter on September 11, 2022, 04:29:02 AM

Elaborate, Dok. Elaborate. Young people don't know what "wisely" means.

Sooner or later they'll soon find out ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

Title: Re: Choose Your Spouse Wisely
Post by: Mr_Mechanic on September 14, 2022, 06:37:22 AM

The truth of the matter is, marriage is unknown.  Good today can be down right ugly tomorrow.  Just gotta put your best foot forward.  And at the end of the day.  If it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out.  Just be civil and part ways, if it goes south. 

   

Title: Re: Choose Your Spouse Wisely
Post by: Reporter on September 14, 2022, 07:53:40 AM

Trial and error. Learn by experience.

I see. I've been told of that before.

But if you have few kids together before you know how to choose wisely, that's lifetime regret, isn't it?

Quote from: Dok_Champa on September 13, 2022, 02:13:09 PM

Sooner or later they'll soon find out ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

Title: Re: Choose Your Spouse Wisely
Post by: Dok_Champa on September 14, 2022, 03:08:57 PM

Quote from: Reporter on September 14, 2022, 07:53:40 AM

Trial and error. Learn by experience.

I see. I've been told of that before.

But if you have few kids together before you know how to choose wisely, that's lifetime regret, isn't it?

or lesson learned ;D ;D ;D

Title: Re: Choose Your Spouse Wisely
Post by: Reporter on September 14, 2022, 10:34:04 PM

Lol