PebHmong Discussion Forum
Relationship => Marriage & Family Life => Topic started by: Believe_N_Me on September 03, 2023, 03:21:33 AM
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I bring up this topic because theking and Reporter had threads about exes or at least mentioned it in a thread.
First of all, I'm not one who frequently talks about exes to my current partner, especially not in the stages of building trust. That's usually after the honeymoon phase. However, I'm not bothered when my partner talks about his ex(es) as long as he's treating me good. Otherwise, I would feel very disrespected and unvalued. A lot of people want to show that they're not to blame for why their last relationship ended so they have the habit of blaming the ex, while talking about how great they were. We've all been guilty of doing this. The love and effort you put into your current relationship is what will show how great a person you are - not anything you did for an ex.
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