..their "mistress" as second, third, forth,....wife within the Hmong community so no such consequences unlike the consequences this Chinese guy faces:
Executive Fired After Street Photographer Captures Him Holding Hands With Mistress

A married business exec in China was fired after a video of him holding hands with his mistress went viral on TikTok.
Hu Jiyong, executive director and general manager of the Huanqiu Contracting and Engineering Corporation, was walking around Chengdu with a young woman when a street fashion photographer recorded them, according to China Daily. People eventually recognized Hu, who was on a business trip at the time, and discussion surrounding the identity of the mystery woman and the dress she was wearing soon followed.
This is the TikTok moment that led to the downfall of Chinese top official Hu Jiyong, after a video of a romantic Chengdu stroll with mistress Ms. Dong went completely viral. Posted by a street photographer, netizens soon recognized the married man. He was fired shortly after. pic.twitter.co m/POlLhdachK
According to Insider, Weibo users have referred to her outfit the clip—which has amassed at least 17 million views—as the "mistress" or "dismissal" dress.