Response to Cali-Guy re: Retirement Party...

[Believe_N_Me]

When a woman really loves you and is crazy about you, there are only two reactions when you mess up really big...

1) ...even though she doesn't forget about what you did, she won't make you verbally apologize because asking you to lower your ego will only drive you farther part. And she knows that when you bow like that, sooner or later she might think you're not man enough. I know, it's weird and complicated. So she'll suck it up and try her hardest not to bring it up again. That way you two can move forward.

2)...she is going to start biatching, mistreating you, work up drama and that's because she hurts a lot but can't leave because she still loves you. She is traumatized. Therefore, she wants to fight you and get you to react like a monster. That will make it easier for her to leave. She wants you to be a monster so she can stop loving you and walk away.