I agree. I have experiences, too.
When I was younger, I thought people could change. I took it upon me to change someone. After three harsh years of unsuccessfully trying, I raised the white flag on her and moved on.
I still have hope that people can change...But you know what hope is: just imagination.
But Red's partner says hope is a good thing. So, I still hope people can change and that marriage can be stable.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=psxU3x6c3WYDo you know why? I’ve been thru that experience. If the ex was so good why left her? I guess cheater will cheat no matter what. Qub neeg qub siab qub dev qub ntxhiab.