Ok here's a story about a "past online member"
June was only 20 years old, lived a happy healthy life with her family. Her bf, Toua was from Canada. btw, June and her family bought a beautiful home up on the mountains of southern california, they haven't lived there for long when June heard and saw weird things. But being christian, they didn't believe in such. One day while home alone, washing the dishes, she heard someone calling her name. Without turning around she yelled back, "Ab tsis?" She turned around, no one was there. She didn't think too much of it. She and her bf was always talking about getting married but never got around to either proposing or being engaged but during christmas, they gave each other a promise ring.
A month later, June got really sick. She couldn't get out of bed. They admitted her to the hospital. They found Nothing wrong with her. Her bf went to spend some time with the family. While there, He heard weird things and saw weird shadows and blurs running pass the guest bed to his gf's bedroom. He went to check up on her. Nothing. A week after he went home, she was again admitted to the hospital, it took only a few days afterwards, then she died. It happened so fast, too soon.
Toua was told of the death and was ready to fly out and see his dead gf. But his mom wouldn't allow him at all. His mom was a shaman and she said it was not a good thing for him to do so. But his dad's parents (his paternal grand-parents) were christian and they would belittle toua's mom saying such thing doesn't matter. Toua told them he would die for her, he couldn't live without her. His paternal grandmother took him aside and told him, if he loved her that much, they will allow him to go and see her. Somehow his grandmother had given him a ring a long time ago to save it for his future wife. His mom finally gave in and let him go. When he got to the church, he took June's hand and placed the ring on her finger.
It was about a month later, Toua was riding his motorcycle down the 99, in broad day light, when a raven flew right into his sight ( according to other motorists) he crashed and died. But they couldn't find that 'raven'. His mom did a jingle bell thing and found out that his gf had come to take him.
Weird thing is, when they were both still alive and chatting away with me, they did promise each other they would come for one another and joke with me that if they should go first before me, they will come and tell me how life after death is. For both of their funeral, I wasn't able to attend. After their passing, I would get sick real quick and at times severly ill, my mood would change to the point that I thought i was gong insane. I had crazy dreams and would see crazy things.
A year after, one day after doing the jingle to fix a relative. The shaman guy who I never met, nor my family ever met. Approached my parents and told me to come and sit down for a bit with him. He stared at me for a bit and asked me if I know of a girl that passed recently. I nodded. He said ok, because she was there with me. My parents were shocked. He told me that the more i let her visit me, the sooner I will go with them. And that during their funeral, they were looking for me.