damn it was weird last night. in the middle of baking my bread and got a call. took it and didn't know what to think. one of my kids' mom calls me--here, I'm think she wanted to talk or had questions about tutoring or her child and then she's like..."r u home? let's go out. I'm coming over to pick u up!"
She didn't even give me a chance to say no--or yes even. I was not really wanting to go but she was coming regardless. WTF, i can't party with my kids' mom.
Thing is her younger sister and I were good friends in college and we were always going out. She at the time was always pregnant and had her kids (she was married young) so we know each other--but we never hung out or anything. OK, I take that back--we don't know each other--as I really don't know her personally other than she's my friends' older sister. Odd thing is, I'm not really close to her sister anymore. So it's already awkward and then being that I'm her daughters' advisor is even more awkward. I understand with her failing marriage and whatnot she wants some "me" time and has never experienced life w/o her "mom" title. But this just isn't right...and not professional--even if we
know each other on a personal (sort of) level.
Luckily, she couldn't find her ID so we just had a drink or two at my house and left. Unfortunately, she said she'd try to find it today so we can go.
I don't want to be mean--but I just might not pick up my phone. I hope she doesn't just show up at my house. Oh...running away from grown adult mom who wants to party her youth out. No thanks.